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Are You Sick & Tired Of Being Sick & Tired?! Chain Breaker News!
Are you Sick & Tired of Being Sick & Tired?! Meet a queen that is breaking chains!
Chain Breaker News HERE!
Meet a Chain Breaker University Spring Cohort Queen: Shannon L.Shannon is a child of God, a survivor of domestic and narcissistic abuse, a mom (& pet mom), national certified medical assistant, just to name a few of her roles. Shannon loves helping people, especially hurting women and the elderly. Outside of Shannon’s formal titles and hats, she enjoys volunteering, journaling, watching movies, spending time with family, and working on various projects. ether. She aspires to be an author so she can tell her story and let women know that they are not alone.What Chain Breaker University (CBU) meant to Shannon:Chain Breaker University (CBU) was a right-on-time program. Coming out of narcissistic abuse and getting to the root was much-needed and edifying. Learning to set boundaries, release codependency, and become authentically who my father in heaven called me to be, are just some of the amazing things I experienced. The information learned during CBU will be utilized for many years to come. I strongly recommend this program to any woman, even If you think you have it all together! Chain Breakers, we can always elevate and vibrate higher.Thank you, Shannon Savoy, for being obedient, and for sharing your life, time, energy, wisdom, and the word of God. Many blessings to the spring CBU graduates, as well as, the Fall Semester Chain Breaker University queens!In this week’s Chain Breaker news that YOU can use:
- Daily Inspiration
- CBU Community
- FAQs
- Have a question? Ask your question here!
- Season of Beginnings
- Prayer Point for this week!
Godly men arise!
Kingdom daughters arise!
We are men & women of warfare!
I take back everything that the enemy stole. I call back my inheritance as a joint heir to the throne. Jehovah Gibbor, cover me in battle. I ask that you release your giant warrior angels to war on my behalf. Unseat, undam, assault, and liquefy the enemy’s lay lines! I decree that no weapon formed against me and my family shall prosper. I humbly bring you into remembrance of the promises to restore my life as I seek ye the Kindom of Heaven and your righteousness. Like Jacob, I will not let you go until you bless me Elohim! Change my name like Israel! I decree and declare I AM MADE NEW! I SHALL RECOVER! I SHALL ADVANCE YOUR KINGDOM! I SHALL ARISE! Perhaps I was born for such a time as this! In Jesus’ name, I pray. IT IS SO! Shalom.
And from the days of John the Baptist until now, the Kingdom of Heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force. Matthew 11:12
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The Burden Of Building With A Narcissist: Build-A-Clown Workshop!
Join me live Tuesday, April 26th at 7pm CST! I’ll open up on YouTube AND on Clubhouse for a few minutes then transition to YouTube only. I won’t be live on Saturday so tune in on Tuesday for this word!
When you build with a clown you become a part of the circus…
Let’s examine:
Build A Clown Workshop: Why Building With A Narcissistic Clown Is Costly
*Narc Land
*How The Clown 🤡 Gets You
*Why The Clown Targets You
*The Clown’s Family
*When You Realize You Are With A Killer Clown
*Settle or Leave Clown Town?
*Putting A Crown On A Clown
*Leaving Narc Land
“In Matthew 7:24-27, Jesus states that those who hear His words AND do them are wise builders. They have built their homes on rock-solid foundations. The winds howl, the rains come – even a flood comes – but the house stands firm. Those who hear His words, but fail to live by them are foolish builders.”
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I Was Catfished! Narc Tale Time!
So hello Chain Breakers! It’s narc tale time.
Let me tell you about the time that I was catfished by someone pretending to be a survivor of abuse! I want to share this account with you so you are aware that there are some pretty sick people out here in these narc streets. They are double agents, scamming, conning, and trying to fool people that are genuinely trying to help survivors. People like this are typically filled with spirits of rejection, abandonment, Leviathan, Python, & Jezebel. They lie with ease and have absolutely no remorse for the people they impact.
Gladly this conniving catfish received nothing but time and was outed by authorities in the end. Unfortunately, some people lose so much more. Our hearts go out to those who do. May Jehovah Jireh return everything you lost from a spiritual & psychological thief. In this video I discuss:
- What is catfishing?
- What does God’s word say about liars, schemers, and manipulators?
- What are familiar spirits?
- Where is the best place for narcissists to hide?
- What is a catfish’s end game?
- What lessons were learned?
I always ask God to reveal the snakes around me…sometimes they appear as angels of light when they are nothing more than dusty, decepticon demons in disguise.
“Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from telling lies.” Psalm 34:13
“Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.” Romans 16:17-18
People like this will continue to try to infiltrate. I pray that God binds up the evil, demonic plots, plans, & ploys of every enemy that is a foe, pretending to be a smooth-talking friend.
Let’s get into it!
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Shoutout HTX Magazine Feature: Shannon Savoy
We had the good fortune of connecting with Shannon Savoy and we’ve shared our conversation & interview below.
Hi Shannon, what was your thought process behind starting your own business?
Why did I start this business? To help others understand that if I can make it out, so can they. If I can not only live but thrive after abuse, they can too. Even as I went through domestic abuse, I knew then that I would do whatever I could to help others that are in abuse. I also help those who are out of abuse, because the abuse & the implications do not stop once the victim leaves. So we formulate effective strategies through one-on-one coaching, group coaching, support groups.I am a survivor of domestic violence (interpersonal violence). I am also a survivor of narcissistic family enmeshment, sexual, physical, emotional, and psychological abuse. These experiences help me to understand firsthand how damaging narcissistic abuse can be. I am able to truly relate on every level with survivors.
-Narcissist abuse affects over 158 million people.
-1 in 4 women (24.3%) and 1 in 7 men (13.8%) aged 18 and older in the US have been the victim of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
-Intimate partner violence alone affects more than 12 million people every year.
(Source: https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/)With such high numbers, I believe we should be discussing abuse & prevention much more. Abuse affects all socioeconomic demographics, cultures, races, and places. My goal is to educate and help those who are in these situations to get out safely.
What sets Narc Free Living apart is that I take a holistic coaching approach to overcome abuse. Along with my client’s therapist, I help them formulate their healing team (A-Team). We address the psychological, emotional, physical, financial, sexual, and spiritual aspects of abuse. I help them through rumination, stuck points, isolation, and the pain of abuse.
Check out the rest of the article here!
About Shoutout HTX
Every day we ask our contributors and interviewees questions designed to spark meaningful conversations. We ask questions about life, work, love, parenting, finances, and more. Questions like how you think about risk-taking, work-life balance, or online dating. We ask entrepreneurs why they started their business and we ask artists what their work is inspired by.
We think meaningful conversations are at the heart of community building. We also think every voice matters and that these conversations shouldn’t be led by billionaires, media elites, or celebrities. We feel it’s far more relevant to hear from the folks who make up the fabric of our communities – small business owners, mom-and-pops, and independent artists and creatives.
Shoutout HTX is part of the Los Angeles-based Voyage Group of Magazines and our flagship publication, VoyageLA was started in 2015. Since then we’ve grown to almost a dozen cities, generated millions of page views, and helped tens of thousands of entrepreneurs and creatives share their stories. Along the way we’ve built a vibrant and highly engaged community and Shoutout is about giving that community an opportunity to go beyond stories. By focusing on topics that are relevant to almost everyone we hope to inspire important conversations within the community and do so in a way that puts artists, creatives, and local businesses at the center of these conversations.
Our mission is to help change the way people spend money. We want people to spend more of their money with mom-and-pops, small businesses, independent artists, and creatives. We think one of the most powerful ways to do that is by putting small business owners and creatives at the center of discussions designed to spark conversation within the community.
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Narcissists, Noel Jones, & The Forever Supply!
Let’s have a midday chat about the Noel Jones proposal.
What does it look like when you are the forever supply?
What are some lessons learned?
What is the narcissist’s dream team?
What is breadcrumbing?
We don’t diagnose but we do discern!
Let’s get into it.
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Strategies To Defeat The Narcissist!
Let’s discuss ways to defeat the narcissist!
Understand that we are playing on the enemy’s turf.
1 Peter 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.
The Lord is a warrior; the Lord is his name. – Exodus 15:3 NIV
The Word says that the Lord is a warrior, and this means that He is the one who gives warriors the strategies to win in battle.
What does that make us?!
Warriors!
Understand that you have an opponent
Failure to see the narcissist for who and what they are keeps YOU at a great disadvantage.
You cannot be in a war and not armor up.
This is how Jezebel works: Jezebel will always come after the true prophet. She uses the Delilah spirit to charm and disarm, to learn your strengths and weaknesses. They get next to you and learn all about you only to use it against you in the spiritual realm. They work in the spiritual realm the entire time and you are working in the natural. They attempt to drive you to the brink of insanity, through witchcraft, seduction, manipulation, deception, confusion, pretension, Python, Leviathan, & many demonic spirits.
Understand that you have the authority in Christ.
Watch this video to understand how we armor up!
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Narcissists & Betrayal
Narcissist & Betrayal
A narcissist is a person who is extremely indulged in self-love. A narcissist is a selfish, self-centered person. He needs an excessive need for attention and admiration. They have disturbed interpersonal relationships.
Narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths are betrayal-masters. The betrayal is only a matter of sport for them & for others, it is severe psychological, emotional, spirit,ual and mental damage.
Betrayal is something more painful than cheating. It’s a false representation of someone’s intention. Any type of loss in a relationship is painful but in the case of betrayal, it’s more excruciating.
People throughout the world are silently abused by narcissists. A narcissist has an exceptional ability to seek sympathy and security from people surrounding them.
Sadly, few of us cant spot a narcissist in our relationships. People keep themselves hurting throughout their lives.
What does God’s word say?
1 Corinthians 13:4-84 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
Here are a few points that will help you to spot the narcissism in your spouse.
What are the signs of a narcissist?
From a psychological perspective, narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a mental health condition. The person is involved in the extreme need for attention and a sense of self-importance. Narcissists seek validation from others. They have superficial relationships and lack empathy. From a spiritual perspective, narcissists are demonic scoffers.
2nd Peter 3:3 warns us that “in the last day’s scoffers will come, scoffing and following their own evil desires.”
They said to you, “In the last time there will be scoffers, following their own ungodly passions.”
3 But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 heartless, unappeasable, …
Let’s highlight a few signs of narcissist that can help you to spot narcissism.
- They are highly insecure
They are highly insecure, so they look for others to fulfill them.
Narcissists look for security. It’s not personal to them but it’s highly personal to victims of narcissist abuse.
They have an incomplete and unbalanced personality therefore they need someone to complete them.
They are takers, they always search for those who are givers. They don’t have the limitation of how much they will take from a person?
They look for everything they inherently don’t have. They are in survival mode all the time on the hunt.
- Exaggerated need of validation
A narcissist needs a constant need of attention and validation. They are the predators some more, some less, this is why they cheat.
They want to keep their partner engage by asking for the things or keep something to grab your attention.
They seek people to surround them. They think the more people they surround the more backup they have in case if someone leaves.
Their formula of attention is quite simple. More numbers more security, more security. It makes them wanted and needed all the time.
Despite all their bragging and boasting or grandiose, they are insecure. The narcissist needs an unstoppable supply of praise and approvals from others.
- Lack of empathy
The narcissist has a lack of empathy. They don’t care about how the other person feels. A narcissist lacks the skill of making others validated, accepted, or understood.
The means of an overflow of narcissist supply is significant in their behaviors.
If you as a victim try to give them the silent treatment, they are entertaining and talking about you to others.
They keep speaking with others while you speak with no one. Because you are trying to figure out, what happened?
- They are egocentric
A narcissist is an egocentric person. They don’t feel ashamed or guilty of what they have done with others.
They don’t even think of themselves for the emotional and psychological damage they have done to others.
Ego strokes their false self must always be stroked and catered to.
Leaving the people helpless, shattered, and devastated is part of their game.
- They are horrible with finances
A narcissist is a predator. They search for anyone who can not only bear their ugly personalities but their dirty finances too.
They trap people with their charming personalities and ambidexterity.
Ways A Narcissist betray their partner
A relationship with a narcissist is a fairy tale in beginning. Over time, a narcissist starts showing their true colors.
The past dream dates become the worst nightmare. Anyone can be a victim of narcissist abuse, but individuals with emotional abuse and trauma fall for them.
Betrayal is a part of a narcissist personality. A narcissist can stop himself from betrayal. After all, the abuse and betrayal flow in their blood.
There are few ways, a narcissist can betray you. Have a look
- Pornography
- Triangulation
- Lying them to others
- Betraying your secrets to others
- Infidelity
The people who experience betrayal by their narcissist partner face different mental and social pressures.
The betrayal leads to certain health and emotional traumas. One of the major issues is CPTSD.
Summary
Betrayal whether from a family member, a friend, or an intimate partner causes a dramatic breach of trust. When a spouse or partner betrays you they are creating a soul tie with the external partner that you will have to contend with.
The shocking turn of events disrupts our lives, compromises our safety, and overwhelms us.
The betrayal is not the reflection of your character, it’s a sign of their character.
Remember, narcissists, are always in numbers. Their goal is to collect people on their side, so you feel alone and more betrayed by others.
Just keep yourself focused, cool and calm. No one on the earth is allowed to make you unhappy or shattered.
Staying connected to your loved ones is the best therapy. We only live once, make the most of our life. Be a reason for someone’s happiness.
Watch this video as we discuss the narcissist from a biblical perspective and how to overcome to truly break those chains.
