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A BIG Community becomes SMALL when you get involved! Join the NFL community HERE! See you on the inside, breaking chains!
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New Merch Alert!
Are you a slayer and a pray-er?
Are you about your Father’s business?
These new tees are made with you in mind!
Order yours today!
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Signs Of Marriage Breaking Spirits & Spirit Spouses (YouTube Premiere)
Join me for a 20-minute live video premiere Saturday, January 1 at 1 pm CST! If you miss it, catch the replay!
Do you know the signs of marriage breaking spirits and spirit spouses?
Here are a few:
- Divorce is rampant in your bloodline
- Engagements but no marriage
- Marriage delay
- Sex dreams about a man or woman
- Child sucking on your breast in a dream
- Spouse no longer has affection for their spouse
- Wet dream (demon having sex with you)
- Asmodeous
- Ashmodi
- Iccubus
- Succubus
Spirit spouses are of the marine kingdom and they are relentless! But they are defeated when we know our authority in Yeshua!
Recognize the signs
How do you break the chains? Join the conversation! Still have questions? Ask your question and receive a personalized, tailored response just for you! Visit https://www.wisio.com/ShannonSavoy
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Are You In Spiritual ICU?
Here are a few reminders. ♥️ Trouble doesn’t last always and neither does the wilderness season.
Remember there is a time for everything.There is an appointed time for your breakthrough, for your release from bondage, for your victory!There is a time for everything,and a season for every activity under the heavens:a time to be born and a time to die,a time to plant and a time to uproot,a time to kill and a time to heal,a time to tear down and a time to build,a time to weep and a time to laugh,a time to mourn and a time to dance,a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,a time to search and a time to give up,a time to keep and a time to throw away,a time to tear and a time to mend,a time to be silent and a time to speak,a time to love and a time to hate,a time for war and a time for peace.Ecclesiastes 3Take accountability, and as you do be kind to you.❤️🩹
Take note of your triggers.📝
Address. ✅Don’t suppress.❌
Be blessed & be a blessing. 💜
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Let’s Discuss: The Holiday Hoover, Winter Woes, & Cuffing Season!
What is hoovering??
Hoovering is when a narcissist attempts to worm their way back into your life after the discard, break-up, or maybe after they have ghosted their target over a period of time. During the holiday season, narcissists may hoover in several strategic ways to lure you back into their sphere of control.
Why Do Narcissists Hoover?
Hoovering is done to regain control over you & so that you never let your guard down regardless of how much time has passed. The monitoring and hoovering starts when they are low on supply, are bored, or want something from you like time, attention, validation, money, etc. Narcissists are empty, vapid voids so they must surround themselves with external things and people who validate their false selves at all times. Being alone and with themselves is too much to face. They also want to finish what they started which includes siphoning all your time, spirit, and resources.
In this fun-filled conversation, we explore:
Why do narcissists hoover?
How do they hoover?
Do they actually care?
Examples of hoovering
How do we navigate the winter woes?
What is cuffing season?
I also discuss the lesson learned and why closure is overrated!
Matthew 12:43-45 When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none. Then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth it empty, swept, and garnished. Then goeth he, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.
When God sets you free, don’t go back to what tried to break you! Don’t fall for the hoover Chain Breakers.
Let’s continue to break those chains!
Whom the Son sets free is free indeed! John 8:36
Don’t forget to sign up today for the Dating After Narcissist Abuse❤️🩹: Soulmates & Soul Ties January 15th! 1-3pm CST!
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dating-after-narcissist-abuse-soulmates-soul-ties-tickets-230130355087
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How The Covert Female Narcissist Infiltrates! Join Us On Clubhouse!
Let’s discuss the signs & traits of the female narcissist!
The female narcissist, sociopath, psychopath, etc., is just as cunning & dangerous as her male counterpart! Yet she is coddled by society and familial norms. She often hides behind being the unsuspecting frenemy that is secretly mirroring and wants to be you. She comes across as wanting help or introverted when she is a vicious wolf in sheep’s clothing. Or she may come across as a dear old auntie or grandmother. She may also be extroverted and lively. No one suspects the grandmother, or “kind” woman, right? Many falsely assume she is nurturing when everything she does is cloaked in false humility and secrecy.
How do you discern a female narcissist?
What are the signs of a covert and overt female narcissist?
Are there differences between male & female narcissists?
Why does she go undetected much longer?
What impact does she have?
What role do narcissists play in parental alienation? For those being alienated, have you discerned the other parent may be a narcissist?
We’ll get into narcissistic frenemies – how they use people around them to accomplish their goals and then discard with absolutely no remorse.
We’ll also break down how the female narcissist uses her children & spouse similar to a black widow.
Join the conversation on Clubhouse Tuesday, December 7th at 7pm CST! Find the Clubhouse app in the iOS or Android app store.
Event link: https://www.clubhouse.com/event/M8QeNLDm
Check out these helpful and healing videos on female narcissists:
The Female Narcissist In Love, Friendships, & Relationships: https://youtu.be/SH2ooWR2TuM
The Dangers Of The Female Narcissist! https://youtu.be/ItPUMqe0gLU
What is Clubhouse? Visit this link: https://www.clubhouse.com/
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Have A Question? Ask Me On Wisio!
Do you have a question about narcissist abuse?
Do you believe you are with a narcissist?
Would you like an answer specifically for you and your situation?
This service is designed for those who may be not ready for one-on-one coaching and would like a response to a burning question.
There are several choices to choose from:
Kings Speaks Q & A
This service is specifically for my brothers! Do you have a question? Is something on your mind that you need assistance with or would like a woman’s perspective on?
Help Me!
Do you need help getting out of a narcissist relationship of any kind? You may already discern that you are dealing with a narcissist. Let me know the details about your situation.
You’ll receive a personalized video response along with guidance on where to start. I’ll explain what to expect and more importantly how to break – and stay narc free.
Are you feeling weak? Need support?
Now that you understand what you’re dealing with, before we can do anything about it, we need to understand what it is that is really holding you back.
Please share with me, honestly, what you think it is, and I’ll send you back a personalized video with how to address those weaknesses.
Healing Q & A
We are healing at different paces. Each journey is uniquely designed.
Are you in the midst of your healing journey? Feeling triggered? Received a hoover? Feeling stuck?
Share where you are and I’ll send a video response back to you.
Mentorship Q & A
Sometimes we need help and don’t know where to turn.
Do you have a question about womanhood, life in general, or do you need advice? Ask anything and receive a response.
Disclaimer: This is not to diagnose or take the place of a mental health professional. I do not diagnose but I do discern!
Sign up today!
https://www.wisio.com/ShannonSavoy
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Join The Narcissist Abuse Healing Club!
Blessings & Blessings: How To Keep Your Sanity This Season!
Date & Time: Tuesday, November 23rd, 7pm CST.
Are you dreading the holiday season? Feeling alone?
🙄 Love the season but not the drama?
🤔 Thinking about how you will maintain no contact?
😩 In contact but wondering how to handle toxic family?
😤 Wondering how to handle the holiday hoover?
💜 Ready to share your experience or just listen to other survivors?
Join us in a supportive safe space on Clubhouse!
Are you looking for a support group of Christ-following survivors to be a part of your A-Team?
There’s no sweeping abuse under the rug or spiritually bypassing here. We get to the root.
The Narcissist Abuse Healing Club is here for you. Don’t go at it alone.
Download the Clubhouse audio-only app on the iOS or Android app store today.
Link: https://www.clubhouse.com/event/m2gDQR1P
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Beyond The Trauma Conference 2021!
Join the Beyond The Trauma Conference November 15-17! The link is below to register & tune in.If you are a survivor of abuse & would like resources & actionable steps on leaving an abuser or just to learn more, this conference is for you.
If you are a coach, therapist, or advocate and would to network with other advocates for additional resources for your clients, this is a great resource for you.To register & find more information, please go here:Thank you to warrior advocate Ms. Dorothea Thea Robinson for putting on this conference!Advocate/Consultant/Speaker/x-it-strategistTransforming women victims to survivors to Advocates to thrive in the advocacy!Thank you Chain Breakers! Let’s continue to break those chains! -
The Cost Of Being A Ride Or Die To A Dusty Loser!
“You Shall Not Make for Yourself an Idol” (Exodus 20:4)
Do you find yourself making your relationships idols?
What happens when you depend on a man or woman for your happiness?
An idol is anything that takes the place of God in our hearts and lives. Idols are destructive because they lure us away from God and even from people, but idols aren’t always obvious and evil. We can make idols out of anything in life, even the good things.
Let’s examine the Daddy’s Cult that is trending, the show “For My Man”, and a few examples of when a relationship becomes an idol and the cost of being a ride or die to a dusty narcissistic loser!
There is always a sacrifice and a contract involved. Most people do not read the fine print.
Let’s discuss:
- Derrick Jaxn & his wife Da’Naia Jackson
- Aja Doucette – The Bullets on Bourban Street on the epidosde FOR MY MAN: Bullets on Bourbon Street (Aja Doucette)
- NBA player Lorenzen Wright & Sherra Wright
- Nova Henry & Ava Henry-Curry (Frederick Goings); NBA player Eddy Curry’s ex-girlfriend
- Daddy’s Girl Cult; video courtesy of IAmJoeStone
Psalm 96:4-9
For great is the Lord and greatly to be praised;
He is to be feared above all gods.
For all the gods of the peoples are idols,
But the Lord made the heavens.
Splendor and majesty are before Him,
Strength and beauty are in His sanctuary.
Idols grieve God’s heart. Put God in His rightful place and everything falls into place!
Let’s get into it, Chain Breakers!
