• For example, you were fooled by the charm, the seductive appeal, and the smooth conversation. You were fooled by her charisma, the way she dressed, and the way she led you to believe you found your “soulmate”. While you were loving her she was using you, draining you and your resources.

• You were duped by the “Christian” church member or leader who knows scripture front & back, all while living a false life with a false self. In the public eye, they appear to be spiritual, jovial, and charming but behind closed doors, they lead double lives, full of promiscuous behavior and filthy language – preaching in the pulpit about everything that they do not practice at home.

• You were fooled by the coworker that took you under his/her wing. They showed you the ropes at the office, only to steal your ideas & throw you under the bus at the first opportunity.  Now you know.

• Now you aware awakened and are aware of the love-bombing, the pathological lies, the smear campaigns. You know how the sympathy card is played to draw you in. You know how they twist and play on words. You know how they play innocent publicly, all while tearing you & others down privately. You know how they saw you coming, stalked & groomed you. You saw how they got close & cozy with YOUR circle, YOUR friends, YOUR family, & YOUR network within YOUR sphere of influence.

• Make no mistake it was all by design. You may say: “Oh, (insert name here) wouldn’t do that to me. Look at all I have done, all that we have been through.” YES, HE WOULD. YES, SHE WOULD. HE DID & SHE DID. Narcs DO NOT think like regular people. That is all by design.

But now you know. You know about the betrayal, the heartbreak, the deception, the craftiness, the lies, the manipulation. When someone shows you who they are BELIEVE them. A snake will ALWAYS be a snake: keep your grass low and the snakes will show. An open enemy is better than a fake friend.  CUT THEM OUT or they will continue to CUT YOU. The choice is yours.

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