So What Is Clubhouse & How Do I Join The Narcissist Abuse Healing Club?

So if you follow Narc Free Living, you’ve likely gotten a verbal invitation from Shannon and the fabulous moderators to join the Narcissist Abuse Healing Club. It is a safe space for survivors to meet, learn and share their stories. Don’t worry, it is an audio-only app. All we can see is your profile pic, like any other app that you use. You can quietly listen in or push a button to raise your hand to “come to the stage” with the host and moderators.

This club is for survivors of narcissist abuse in all aspects of narcissism, spiritual warfare, validating you, and discipleship after abuse. We also hold space to encourage others to release trauma, as it is not meant to dwell within our bodies.

The rooms are held space Tuesdays at 7pm CST | 8pm EST | 5pm PST. Check your time zone for your local area.

We talk about it all: the effects of childhood trauma; how we discovered we were involved with narcissists; spiritual abuse; mother & father wounds; what we learn about ourselves; how to assist others; our triggers; our truth, & more importantly-how we thrive afterward. Our rooms are safe spaces for those who are in – as well as those who escaped the clutches of evil, that is narcissistic abuse. In order to heal, we must visit the past – but we don’t dwell there anymore. The focus is on healing & working through challenges together in an honest & supportive space. We cannot heal from what we choose to conceal.

Triggers * Truth * Testimony * Thrive                 

What is Clubhouse?

Clubhouse is a place for casual, drop-in audio chats. When you open the app you can see “rooms” full of people talking and exploring different conversations.

It’s a place to network, meet with friends, and new people around the world—to tell stories, ask questions, debate, learn, and have impromptu conversations on thousands of various topics.

How do I join?

1. To join: Download the app from your phone’s app store. Visit the  Apple App Store or Google Play Store, download the app, and create an account right away!
2. Set up your profile.
3. Follow @narcfreeliving at https://www.clubhouse.com/@narcfreeliving
4. The Narcissist Abuse Healing Club. Here’s the link: https://www.clubhouse.com/club/narcissist-abuse-hea
5. Add the upcoming rooms to your calendar or hit the bell so that you are notified when the host or moderators are speaking.
6. Join the scheduled room at the scheduled time.

Narcissist Abuse Healing Club Etiquette

• Be BRIEF. Please give the Cliff notes, not the APA or MLA version of your story. We want to stay on topic and allow others to speak as well. Please feel free to share your thoughts & testimony quickly.
• Take notes so that you do not forget! Someone may ask a question that you were going to ask or you may be waiting on the stage until it’s your time to speak.
• We speak on narcissism from a biblical perspective. If God (Jesus & the Holy Spirit) are not your thing, that’s perfectly ok. Kindly understand that we follow Christ – feel free to eat the meat & trim the fat.
• We open & close with prayer. You are free to leave quietly at any time.
• Remember that not everything is not meant for you. We are all at various points in the healing journey.
• No profanity. We understand these are sensitive & hot-button topics. We respect everyone in this safe space & refrain from using profanity.
• This space is a judgment-free zone. We speak the truth in love & wisdom. Our experiences are ours.
• We don’t recommend or practice freemasonry, divination, chakras, occult, or new age practices in this space. Put some respect on YHWH ok?!
• If you are not a moderator – please do not take over the room.
• If you feel unsafe because of anyone in the room, please backchannel or backchat with Shannon or one of the moderators.
• We never arrive at healing. It is a continuous process of shedding toxic traits and learning about ourselves.

Still have questions? Email: Support@narcfreeliving.com

Disclaimer: This is not an endorsement for Clubhouse, the rooms that are on the platform, or the instructional video below. Enter rooms with discernment and discretion. Replays are allowed in some rooms. It will notify you if replays are allowed. If you do not wish to consist of those spaces, do not enter those rooms. 

Changes & updates are made weekly by CH developers. Backchannel chat and room replays are now available. When you log into the app it will advise you of current updates.

Here’s a video on how to download Clubhouse on your iPhone & Android.