The Tinder Swindler & Narcissistic Romance Scams!

Let’s discuss the Tinder Swindler!

Who is Simon Leviev?

How did he scam women out of millions of dollars?

What are practical tips for dating and online dating?

Why are narc sympathizers dangerous?

What are the lessons learned??

Narcissists are scammers, con artists, emotional & financial manipulators. If you have been scammed or duped, you are in good company.

“The Tinder Swindler” is the story of Cecilie Fjellhøy, Ayleen Koeleman, and Pernilla Sjoholm as they tell their stories of dating a supposed “billionaire’s son” on Tinder. They swiped right and got much more than they bargained for. The documentary sets out to track down Shimon Hayut, (who goes by the alias Simon Leviev). Cecilie, Ayleen, & Pernilla were allegedly “scammed” into lending Hayut money, which led to millions of dollars in debt.

Most people that are taken advantage of do not realize the person is likely a narcissist and qualify for a diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). In biblical terms, this is a Jezebel demonic spirit (amongst many, many others).

What is a narcissist?

• A narcissist is someone who lacks empathy and has a seared conscience.
• Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love.
• They have an innate belief that they’re special & unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions.
• Narcissists are highly envious and jealous of others or believe that others are envious of them.
• Demonstrate arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes.
• They live in a fantasy world of grandiose fantasies and take advantage of people to accomplish their goals.
• They have persuasive patterns of abuse and manipulating others.
• Narcissists have an inflated sense of importance.
• They have a deep need for excessive attention and admiration (narcissistic supply).
• Has a pattern & trail of troubled, failed relationships.

Of course, we do not diagnose but we do discern!

• Netflix’s documentary “The Tinder Swindler” is about a man accused of scamming women into debt.

• The women tracked down the Tinder user who they say tricked them out of millions of dollars.

• Now, the three women set up a GoFundMe to raise over $800,000 for their debts.

If you have been scammed by a narcissistic sociopath or psychopath, know that you are not alone!

Have you checked out The Tinder Swindler? What are your thoughts?

 Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

Thank you to these brave women for coming forth and sharing their stories to help others. The shame, embarrassment, and guilt of abuse are not yours to bear!

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