Unhealthy Soul Ties: Narcissists Pretend To Be Soulmates!
You’re my SOULMATE!
Oh, my dear…if we had $1 for every narcissist that says, “You are my soulmate,” we’d be very wealthy people.
In the idealization phase, the narcissist lays it on THICK. To someone who is emotionally starved, love-bombing looks like, well, love. It is anything but.
Yes, narcissists have many “soulmates.”
No, you are absolutely not the only one who tried to “help” them be a “better” person.
No, you do not owe it to them or anyone else to be a rehab center for a narcissistic, selfish, inherently evil person.
No, regardless of whether you stay or go, they will not change.
Yes, they lie & say no one else stayed & neither will you. (Insert eye roll & violin here.) 🙄😴
Yes, they will always find another “soulmate.”
Soulmates to narcissists are like buses. Miss one? In 15 minutes another one is coming. This is not a soulmate. This is a deathtrap. Sever the soul tie so you can be free.
Narcissists specialize in creating soul ties through emotional manipulation, manipulation, deception, and trauma bonding. They appeal to empath’s emotions to lure you in with future faking, validation and pretending to be the hero.
What is an Ungodly Soul Tie?
“If you’ve ever felt controlled, manipulated, or dominated, or frustrated by memories of a previous relationship, you’re probably dealing with an ungodly soul tie. Ungodly soul ties are counterfeit to God’s plan and are enforced by demons meant to enslave us. (1 Cor. 6:16) When we step outside of God’s boundaries for relationships we can form an ungodly soul tie.”
Relationships that seek to dominate, control, deceive, destroy, manipulate are ungodly soul ties.
Relationships with narcissists = ungodly soul ties
Ungodly (unhealthy) soul ties lead to idolatry, codependency, & usurping God’s authority & plan for your life.
Codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and a sense of identity. You are already validated in the Kingdom of Heaven!
Let’s break those chains. ⛓
Have you broken the soul tie?
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