Selling Local: The Sales Rebellion Podcast

Are you ready to leave everything that is familiar to step out on faith to find you?  I had the great pleasure of joining Dale Dupree & Chris Watson on The Sales Rebellion podcast. Join us as we discuss narcissism in leaders, sales, & marketing teams. There are so many nuggets that everyone can relate to! What keeps people stuck? Fear is what keeps people stay stuck in dead-end careers, relationships, & situationships. Fear of the unknown is greater than leaving a situation [...]

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Shop with us. Your Support Helps Us Give Back!

  https://narcfreeliving.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_6195.mp4 We are our brothers & sisters keepers! Proceeds help us to give back to survivors of domestic abuse and support our outreach programs. Stay tuned! We’ll be updating how donations and proceeds help support our less fortunate brethren, as well as, those going through a particularly hard time in their lives. “If there be among you a poor man of one of thy brethren within any of thy gates in thy land which the LORD thy God giveth thee, thou shalt [...]

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Childhood Trauma : A Son’s Story of Survival

As part of National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I want to kick off giving survivors a platform to share their stories. The story that I read is from a young man who has the courage and the strength to share his story. Go here to listen to the full story:  https://www.facebook.com/551257378/videos/pcb.10157771877492379/10157771874412379/ Witnessing his mother abused affected him throughout his life in many ways – until he was awakened that there was a better way. Abuse has such damaging pathological, psychological, and [...]

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Shannon & LaRhonda Discuss Narcissistic Abuse

LaRhonda and Shannon take an in-depth look into narcissism from a spiritual perspective. How does one become a narcissist? Do narcissists abuse their children? What are the signs of a narcissistic relationship? Do narcissists know they are narcissists? What does a narcissistic family look like? Can narcissists change narcissists? Does the forgiveness process as a Christ Follower mean that I must stay in contact with abusers or toxic family? We have all encountered narcissists, whether we are aware of them or not. Not all narcissists physically abuse but [...]

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Married To a Narcissist & How I Got Out

https://narcfreeliving.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Moremis-Radio-Broadcast-09-23-2020-Shannon-Savoy-1.mp3 A Snippet of My Testimony I have the pleasure of speaking on Dr. Moremi’s radio show “Taking A Look At Calvary” in Chicago on Big Gospel Express 1570 AM. We are on-air live from 10:30-11:00 AM CST on Wednesdays. Please tune in if you are in the Chicago area. I will upload the broadcast weekly here as well. On last week’s show (September 23rd) I discussed how I found myself married to a narcissist. I also discuss how I left. Sharing [...]

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Are You Codependent?

What is codependency? Let’s discuss the spirits behind codependency and how to overcome them. Fear, rejection, and abandonment are the primary spirits behind codependency. Codependency is a learned behavior and defense mechanism, most often found in those that grew up in a home that was emotionally unhealthy. A codependent essentially gives themselves, their self-worth, to maintain relationships with others. Codependents learned early on to people please, overachieve, (in some cases) underachieve, & put themselves last in order to receive breadcrumbs of “love.” [...]

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Signs That Your Mother Has The Spirit of Jezebel

Have you seen the movie Mommy Dearest? Flowers in the Attic? Precious? Having a narcissistic and toxic mother can be detrimental to a child, especially in the formative years. Society places mothers in such high regard, so we do not think of our own mothers as even remotely narcissistic. With a narcissistic mother, EVERYTHING revolves around her and her perfectly crafted facade. She is likely covert so most people believe the image that she has strategically built over the years. Here [...]

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Who Taught You That? Pass The Peas

🗣Ⓟ Ⓐ Ⓢ Ⓢ 👉🏾Ⓣ Ⓗ Ⓔ 👉🏾Ⓟ Ⓔ Ⓐ Ⓢ Who taught you that abuse was ok? Who taught you that it was ok to be around people that continually hurt you? One thing I know for certain is that dysfunctional families love to have get-togethers! This creates an environment where molesters sit across the dinner table from the very people they molested and abusers sit comfortably around the people they abuse. No one brings up any issues that need to [...]

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Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse: Blindsided

We often hear the term “narcissist,” but what does it mean? Many individuals who are leaving and healing from relationships, especially romantic ones, with people who are narcissists. I was married to a narcissist and could not believe the things I was facing. It felt like an out of body experience. IDENTIFYING INDIVIDUALS WITH NARCISSISM So just what traits does someone with narcissism have, and what does that person look like in the early stages of dating? Studies suggest that 1% [...]

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5 Things Children of Narcissists Wish Everyone Would Stop Saying

1. All parents love their children. Because our core beliefs about family and society rest on ideals of unconditional parental love, in particular motherly love, acknowledging the truth that not all parents love their children or support their best interests is threatening to our fundamental sense of order and safety in the world. Yet it is this impulse to deny reality that enables abuse and further harms victims. 2. Just tell your parents how you feel. Confiding our feelings with people we care about can be a powerful way [...]

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