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Going No Contact | Interview with Shannon Savoy | Daughters Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic Parents | The Deadly Duo of Jezebel & Ahab
If you missed it, watch the replay on Narcissistic Parents: The Deadly Duo of Jezebel & Ahab. This leads right into the conversation with Dani Ellison of Ellison INK. Details below.
What are a few signs of a narcissistic parent?
- Narcissistic parents are not capable of unconditional love. A child is not loved for just being themselves but for what they do for the family or how good they make the parents look.
- They infantile or parentify their children & assign the child(ren) roles based on the child & their abilities, looks, or talents. They feel threatened by their own offspring.
- They lack emotional support & have a lack of empathy and are emotionally neglectful. If their child brings an issue to them, only their point of view matters.
- They take little or no accountability for their lives & play the victim to situations they create while blaming others.
- Whether passive-aggressive or overt, they use superficial charm, victimhood, guilt, shame, & condemnation, money, etc., to control & coerce.
- Remember you are not your parents. You can heal, validate, & reparent yourself.
For more healing & recovery tips watch these videos. Need more help? Schedule a one-on-one session today.
Dani Ellison & Shannon Savoy
Topic: Embracing Healing By Going No Contact
Here is the link to the interview & conversation with Dani. It premieres Sunday March 6 at 1pm CST. Dani is a Recovery Coach for those going no contact with narcissistic mothers. Use code NARCFREE for 10% off of a session.
Let’s break those chains. ⛓ 💜
Check out this interview & healing conversation about narcissistic mothers & daughters.
We talk about it ALL! ❤️🩹
- Why go no contact?
- How do you process the emotions?
- How do you handle narc sympathizers, flying monkeys, & enablers?
- What happens when a narcissistic parent gets ill or passes away?
- What lessons can we learn from the movie, Mommy Dearest?
- And most importantly, how do we heal & reparent ourselves as adults?
Tune into the video premiere Sunday at 1 pm CST on March 6th! We’ll be able to watch & comment together. 🔥
Going No Contact | Interview with Shannon Savoy | Black Daughters Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
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Pink Girl Teaches Podcast: Derailed By Commitment w/Shannon Savoy
Derailed By Commitment
Have you ever committed to something or someone and realized that there would never be a return on your investment? Your time investment and heart posture towards that person or thing. You never experience your desired fulfillment, yet your commitment to that thing or person keeps you stuck? ~ Pink Girl Teaches Podcast
Many yearn for that rare love that society and culture say does not exist, and when they examine their dating and relationship history, they can be deceived to believe this to be true. It’s a fallacy to accept that faithfulness, integrity, humility, and truthfulness cannot be found in one person. It’s time to get naked and unashamed with your truth, consider what is leading your decisions and become fully visible to yourself. You most definitely can experience a love that will honor and cherish you.
Shannon Savoy, Narc Free Living LLC CEO, joins @Pink Girl Teaches Founder, Joy Mpezeni for a very upfront and candid conversation.
Listen to this amazing conversation here: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches
Ohhhh and check out both of our features in SHOUTOUT HTX! Joy’s hit the stands TODAY!!!
Meet Joy! Joy also offers workshops, worksheets, and much more to help turn survivors into THRIVERS! https://shoutouthtx.com/meet-joy-mpezeni-author-and-certified-life-coach/
@Faith Base Work Place Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!
YAH IS MOVING! I HEAR THE CHAINS FALLING!
Go ahead and listen to our podcast and then check out the articles! It will bless you!
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Who’s The Narcissist? A Chain Breaker VIP member video
Who’s the narcissist?
How do we discern who is who?
The narcissist is playing the victim.
The victim is trying to come to terms with what has happened to them.
The narcissist is trying to get your friends & circle to turn against you. The narcissist is claiming the target is bitter, wants them back, or is trying to tear the “family.”
The narcissist smearing your name to anyone who will listen.
The target is trying to figure out & discern who they can trust.
The narcissist does absolutely zero inner reflecting (they cannot). They change nothing but their victims & personality to assimilate.
The victim as they heal becomes more focused on inner healing & getting to the root.
The narcissist does not attend therapy unless it’s a last-ditch effort to lure the victim back in, recommended by their attorney, court-ordered by a judge, etc.
The target may attend therapy, counseling, coaching as they try to heal & overcome narcissist abuse. What else would you add?
Let’s break those chains. ⛓
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Narcissism & The Church: A Candid Conversation with Redeemed Christian Lifestyle
Check out this conversation on Narcissism & The Church! @Redeemed Christian Lifestyle & I had a Holy Spirit lead, open, honest conversation on abuse, how it affects survivors, and feasible solutions.
Redeemed Christian Lifestyle YouTube Channel. Video will be available to view Friday, February 25th at 10 am CST!
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Shoutout HTX Magazine Feature: Shannon Savoy
We had the good fortune of connecting with Shannon Savoy and we’ve shared our conversation & interview below.
Hi Shannon, what was your thought process behind starting your own business?
Why did I start this business? To help others understand that if I can make it out, so can they. If I can not only live but thrive after abuse, they can too. Even as I went through domestic abuse, I knew then that I would do whatever I could to help others that are in abuse. I also help those who are out of abuse, because the abuse & the implications do not stop once the victim leaves. So we formulate effective strategies through one-on-one coaching, group coaching, support groups.I am a survivor of domestic violence (interpersonal violence). I am also a survivor of narcissistic family enmeshment, sexual, physical, emotional, and psychological abuse. These experiences help me to understand firsthand how damaging narcissistic abuse can be. I am able to truly relate on every level with survivors.
-Narcissist abuse affects over 158 million people.
-1 in 4 women (24.3%) and 1 in 7 men (13.8%) aged 18 and older in the US have been the victim of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
-Intimate partner violence alone affects more than 12 million people every year.
(Source: https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/)With such high numbers, I believe we should be discussing abuse & prevention much more. Abuse affects all socioeconomic demographics, cultures, races, and places. My goal is to educate and help those who are in these situations to get out safely.
What sets Narc Free Living apart is that I take a holistic coaching approach to overcome abuse. Along with my client’s therapist, I help them formulate their healing team (A-Team). We address the psychological, emotional, physical, financial, sexual, and spiritual aspects of abuse. I help them through rumination, stuck points, isolation, and the pain of abuse.
Check out the rest of the article here!
About Shoutout HTX
Every day we ask our contributors and interviewees questions designed to spark meaningful conversations. We ask questions about life, work, love, parenting, finances, and more. Questions like how you think about risk-taking, work-life balance, or online dating. We ask entrepreneurs why they started their business and we ask artists what their work is inspired by.
We think meaningful conversations are at the heart of community building. We also think every voice matters and that these conversations shouldn’t be led by billionaires, media elites, or celebrities. We feel it’s far more relevant to hear from the folks who make up the fabric of our communities – small business owners, mom-and-pops, and independent artists and creatives.
Shoutout HTX is part of the Los Angeles-based Voyage Group of Magazines and our flagship publication, VoyageLA was started in 2015. Since then we’ve grown to almost a dozen cities, generated millions of page views, and helped tens of thousands of entrepreneurs and creatives share their stories. Along the way we’ve built a vibrant and highly engaged community and Shoutout is about giving that community an opportunity to go beyond stories. By focusing on topics that are relevant to almost everyone we hope to inspire important conversations within the community and do so in a way that puts artists, creatives, and local businesses at the center of these conversations.
Our mission is to help change the way people spend money. We want people to spend more of their money with mom-and-pops, small businesses, independent artists, and creatives. We think one of the most powerful ways to do that is by putting small business owners and creatives at the center of discussions designed to spark conversation within the community.
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Saved =/ Soft Signature Tee
Are you ready to order the Saved =/ Soft Sweatshirt or Tee? Rep your faith but let people know you are not to be played with. We ARE about our Father’s business! I’ve been wearing this on my YouTube live stream for a minute & due to demand, we’re making it available to you as well!
Check out the video where I am rocking the Saved But NOT Soft sweatshirt. Product details are below. This video is an added bonus: Do narcissists get away with what they do? Absolutely not! God WILL avenge His children. Believe that!
Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” Romans 12:19
Product Details:
Tee
- Brand: Bella Canvas SoftStyle Fitted Unisex Tee
- 100% pre-shrunk cotton
- Fabric Weight: 5.0 oz (mid-weight)
- Double-stitched seams at shoulder, sleeve, collar, and waist
- Special Note: Please air dry for longer wear.
- Imported; designed, processed, and printed Houston, TX
- S, M, L, XL
- SKU: 6002
Sweatshirt
Ok, this is for SERIOUS Christ Followers ONLY! 🙂 Being a follower of Christ sometimes means we flip tables over! We walk boldly and stand on the Word of God! If you are saved, but a true WARRIOR, this tee is for you. WHO SAID THAT SAVED MEANS SOFT?!
- Brand: Hanes P170 Ecosmart Hooded Sweatshirt (Tee available too!)
- Gold vinyl with the Narc Free Living logo
- 7.8 oz., 50/50 cotton/polyester
- Made with up to 5% recycled polyester from plastic bottles
- Patented, low-pill, high-stitch density PrintPro XP fleece
- Dyed-to-match drawcord
- Coverstitched armholes and waistband
- Front pouch pocket
- Rib waistband and cuffs
- Tag-free neck label
- Imported; designed, processed in Houston, TX
https://narcfreeliving.com/product/saved-soft-signature-sweatshirt/
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Narc Tales: Lessons Learned From The Tinder Swindler
Whether you’ve seen the documentary or not, if you’ve been impacted by a narcissist, you can relate on some level to this topic. What are the signs of a con artist? What are the red flags? What should you do when those red flags present themselves? We can’t wait to converse with the community about this documentary!
Join us here on Tuesday, March 1st, @ 7 PM CST!
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Let’s Keep it Real Conference 2022: Clarity Ahead
We are BACK at it again!!
Get your tickets for the “Let’s Keep it Real Conference 2022: Clarity Ahead”!
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President’s Day, Mon., Feb. 21, 2022 10a-630pm EST
(7) Live, uniquely curated panel discussions • Spiritual • Mental Health • Wellness • Finance • Business • Social Justice • Relationships!
Our Relationship Panel will feature our coauthors for “Volume II” of our anthology series called, Money TALK$: Uncut Convos With Power Couples About Love, Money & Entrepreneurship Volume II!
5..4..3..2..1.. Lets’s goooo, Are YALL ready for 𝑻𝑯𝑰𝑺 level up?”
Did you miss our 𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒖𝒈𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒍 8-𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒗𝒊𝒓𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒇𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 last February & March? We are baaaaaack!!
And ready to 𝒄𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒃𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝑩𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝑯𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚 𝑴𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏!
𝑩𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝑬𝒙𝒄𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 is on display this month!! Just catch a glimpse of our incredible speakers for the 2𝒏𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒖𝒂𝒍 “𝑳𝒆𝒕‘𝒔 𝑲𝒆𝒆𝒑 𝑰𝒕 𝑹𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒇𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 2022: 𝑪𝒍𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝑨𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒅“.
𝑴𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝑶𝑼𝑹 𝑴𝑶𝑫𝑬𝑹𝑨𝑻𝑶𝑹𝑺!!
• 50+ 𝑩𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝑺𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒓𝒔: 𝑵𝑨𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵𝑨𝑳𝑳𝒀 AND 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 to include the 𝑼𝒏𝒊𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝑲𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒅𝒐𝒎, 𝑨𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒈𝒖𝒂 and even 𝑵𝒊𝒈𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒂!!
• 𝑪𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒅𝒊𝒂𝒏𝒔
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• 𝑽𝑰𝑷 𝑮𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒚𝒔
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Do 𝐍𝐎𝐓 miss this unique experience to 𝒃𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒅, 𝒃𝒆 𝒆𝒎𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅, 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅, 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒄𝒆𝒔, 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏, 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘 𝑨𝑵𝑫 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒇𝒖𝒏!!! Register & support!
Get tickets
Here’s the anthology link on Amazon! Order your copy today!
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Surviving The Narcissistic Breakup!
Here are some tips from this week’s newsletter to help you through a breakup. Remember, this is about you, your journey back to God & your purpose.View the newsletter here:I sincerely encourage you to LOVE ♥ on YOURSELF! ♥- Buy yourself flowers 💐and if you are up to it, send them to yourself!
- Take a walk in the park (if it’s not too cold, or bundle up) 👟
- Have a date with God 🍝
- Journal – Here are a few writing prompts:
- I feel loved when _________
- Five ways that I can show love to myself:
- Love is ___________
- Remind yourself that you are fearfully & wonderfully made 🤞🏽
- Take a break from social media (especially on days like such)🔌
- Listen to music & dance like no one is watching 💃🏾
- Treat yourself to a movie & dinner or invite friends (You are great company, don’t you know?)❤️
- Do something you love to do (that is healthy), but have not done it in a while. 🤔
- Write your inner child a love letter 💌
- Look into the mirror and say 1-3 positive affirmations!
- I deserve a peaceful and loving life.
- Today, and every day, I choose joy.
- I am proud of myself.
Watch this video for prayer, support, practical & spiritual tips on surviving and thriving after the breakup.
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Is My Mother A Narcissist? The Pitfalls & How To Overcome!
What are the signs of a narcissistic mother or mother-in-law? What does this mean for her children? What are the roles that narcissistic parents assign to their children? How do you honor her? Let’s get into it -Midday Chats on Clubhouse- Thursday, March 3, 2022, @ 1 pm CST!
Tune in here!
