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Are You In Spiritual ICU?
Here are a few reminders. ♥️ Trouble doesn’t last always and neither does the wilderness season.
Remember there is a time for everything.There is an appointed time for your breakthrough, for your release from bondage, for your victory!There is a time for everything,and a season for every activity under the heavens:a time to be born and a time to die,a time to plant and a time to uproot,a time to kill and a time to heal,a time to tear down and a time to build,a time to weep and a time to laugh,a time to mourn and a time to dance,a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,a time to search and a time to give up,a time to keep and a time to throw away,a time to tear and a time to mend,a time to be silent and a time to speak,a time to love and a time to hate,a time for war and a time for peace.Ecclesiastes 3Take accountability, and as you do be kind to you.❤️🩹
Take note of your triggers.📝
Address. ✅Don’t suppress.❌
Be blessed & be a blessing. 💜
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Let’s Discuss: The Holiday Hoover, Winter Woes, & Cuffing Season!
What is hoovering??
Hoovering is when a narcissist attempts to worm their way back into your life after the discard, break-up, or maybe after they have ghosted their target over a period of time. During the holiday season, narcissists may hoover in several strategic ways to lure you back into their sphere of control.
Why Do Narcissists Hoover?
Hoovering is done to regain control over you & so that you never let your guard down regardless of how much time has passed. The monitoring and hoovering starts when they are low on supply, are bored, or want something from you like time, attention, validation, money, etc. Narcissists are empty, vapid voids so they must surround themselves with external things and people who validate their false selves at all times. Being alone and with themselves is too much to face. They also want to finish what they started which includes siphoning all your time, spirit, and resources.
In this fun-filled conversation, we explore:
Why do narcissists hoover?
How do they hoover?
Do they actually care?
Examples of hoovering
How do we navigate the winter woes?
What is cuffing season?
I also discuss the lesson learned and why closure is overrated!
Matthew 12:43-45 When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none. Then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth it empty, swept, and garnished. Then goeth he, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.
When God sets you free, don’t go back to what tried to break you! Don’t fall for the hoover Chain Breakers.
Let’s continue to break those chains!
Whom the Son sets free is free indeed! John 8:36
Don’t forget to sign up today for the Dating After Narcissist Abuse❤️🩹: Soulmates & Soul Ties January 15th! 1-3pm CST!
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dating-after-narcissist-abuse-soulmates-soul-ties-tickets-230130355087
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Narc Free living & the Narcissists Abuse Healing Club presents: Narcissists & The Spirits of Theft, Slander, & Murder
December 21, 2021, @ 7 pm CST on Clubhouse: Join Narc Free Living & the Narcissists Abuse Healing Club as we discuss how narcissists use slander and smear campaigns to do soul murder on their victims. We’re examining recent headlines (Rajee Black) to see exactly how the narcissist steals, kills, and destroys! Most importantly, we’re discussing the lessons learned from this recent tragic headline.
#triggerwarning Please be advised that the conversation may be harmful or traumatizing to some people. We encourage you to prepare yourself emotionally beforehand.
Join the conversation here!
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Narcissists & The Spirits of Theft, Slander, & Murder! YouTube 12/18/2021 1pm CST
TRIGGER WARNING!
Have you seen the news lately? If so, or if not, we’re dissecting this situation, Rajaee Black… The man who shot and killed his ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, and himself.
Narcissists & The Spirits of Theft, Slander, & Murder!
#NARCNOTES
Take people at their word! If they threaten harm against you, your family, business, and/or pets, BELIEVE them and take care of you!
GOD does not want you shackled to someone abusing you in any manner!
Have a relationship with GOD for yourself! PEOPLE will keep you in BONDAGE!
REMEMBER YOU MUST PETITION THE COURTS AND GOD FOR SAFETY!
BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE THINGS YOU DO!
ASK GOD FOR DISCERNMENT! PEOPLE ARE CRAFTY WITH THEIR VICTIMIZATION STORIES!
When they are showing you that they don’t love you, LET THEM LEAVE!
Marry and date for the RIGHT reasons!
Remember, we do not have a right to take lives (in any fashion,) because we are MAD! #bigmad
Pray to GOD! Forgive yourself and them! Examine your own heart
TRUST BUT VERIFY!
For all the details, watch the replay HERE!
Let me know what yall think in the comments!
#spiritualwarfare #soulties #rajaeeblack
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Dating After Narcissist Abuse❤️🩹: Soulmates & Soul Ties!
Let’s get into Sex, Lies, & Soul Ties! How do you break the trauma bonds and sever the soul ties that bind?
How do you know when you are ready to date again after narcissist abuse or domestic violence? Join this faith-based (but no spiritual bypassing!) community of survivors & thrivers, who are overcoming abuse & becoming Women of Warfare God’s way!This virtual workshop via Zoom is for YOU, regardless of marital status. There is something we ALL can learn from each other.Meet me online for this in-depth teaching and queen’s conversation! This is not your church mother’s dialogue about dating!Saturday, January 15th at 1-3pm CST. (I will not be LIVE on YouTube on this date)Sign up here:Use discount code: CHAIN $5 OFF for a limited time and a limited number of seats only!
This workshop will help you define:*Boundaries for yourself and others
*How do you date with purpose in the world today?
*How do you level up?
*Are you ready & equipped to begin dating again?
*Not ready just yet, but want to prepare yourself as a WIFE?
*Tired of dating the same spirit in a different body?
*Dating YOURSELF FIRST!
*Safety measures & online apps that help you stay safe!
*Navigating online dating
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10 Types Of People Who Don’t Undergo Deliverance!
He [Leviathan] beholds every high thing; he is king over all the children of pride.
Job 41:34
Narcissists do not (typically) repent and renounce their sins because of a seared conscience and lack of remorse. What can we learn from this? What other spirits keep others from deliverance? Watch this video & examine yourself to ensure that you are not operating in unrepentance, shame, and pride!
Let’s break those chains!
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Narcissist Tales: How’d You Find Out “The” Person Was A Narc?
So, how did you find out your significant other, your supervisor, business partner, friend, parent, or other was a narcissist? Did you consult Google, your best friend, God, or something/someone else? What then happened next?
We want to hear all about it! Let’s heal and help the next person! When you know better, you just may do better! 🙂
Join us here!
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Narcissists, Covenants, & Curses! Can Believers Have Demons?
#NARCNOTES:NARC ASSIGNMENT: TO STEAL, KILL, AND DESTROY!- Know that they understand the assignment very well!
THE ANTIDOTE: FOCUS ON GOD AND YOUR HEALING!- Remember that curses you pray will come back on YOU!
We covered the following on Saturday, December 11, 2021:
How do narcissists set you up for a life lived under demonic curses?
The Correlation Between Believers & Demons!
What does it mean to be tormented, harassed, and demonized?We examined:
*Culture, ancestry, and lineage
*How demonic covenants are formed
*Familial curses
*Relationship curses
*Friendship curses
*The process of breaking free from them all!Listen to the replay to determine if you are operating under a curse and how to break free!!
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Narcissists & The Octopus Spirit: An Entanglement From Hell!
Missed this session? Don’t worry! Here’s what you need to know… but be sure to check out the replay!#NARCNOTESOctopuses are known to be smart. If you are ever wondering how narcissists seem smart & get out of seemingly every situation, this spirit is why.- The Octopus comes in many shapes, forms, and fashions! They change colors to blend in with the environment in 0.3 seconds! Just like the OCTOPUS, the narcissist shapeshifts! They sit back and study you and then devise a plan to attack you. They talk the talk but bare no fruit of the spirit!
- BE OBSERVANT! Pray for DISCERNMENT!
- Octopus Physical Make-Up: 3 hearts, 8 tentacles, and 9 brains!
- The eight tentacles represent religion, fear, lust, pride, greed, a spirit of error, false doctrine, and deceptions (from John Eckhardt’s book: Demon Hit List).
- Signs You Are Entangled: Ruminating over the narcissist and confusion about why they dismiss you without any discussion! For more signs, you must listen to the replay!
- How They Get in Your Circle: they urge you to share all the intimate details of your life including but not limited to: your ideas on various subjects, past hurts and joys, your friends became their friends, then they pretend as though they will take care of you, with absolutely NO intention of following through, they join your church and all your other activities!
- The Octopus Spirit is REAL and will control your mind! Can’t get that NARCISSIST out of your head? CHAIN BREAKER- FIGHT TO let him/her GO! Faith OVER Feelings! Don’t let the OCTOPUS SPIRIT destroy you! Octopus spirits put you into a daze and infiltrate every area of your life.
- THE BLOOD OF JESUS, PRAYING, LISTENING, LEARNING, but most importantly, APPLYING what you learn is the key to breaking the chains of these DEMONIC SPIRITS!
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How The Covert Female Narcissist Infiltrates! Join Us On Clubhouse!
Let’s discuss the signs & traits of the female narcissist!
The female narcissist, sociopath, psychopath, etc., is just as cunning & dangerous as her male counterpart! Yet she is coddled by society and familial norms. She often hides behind being the unsuspecting frenemy that is secretly mirroring and wants to be you. She comes across as wanting help or introverted when she is a vicious wolf in sheep’s clothing. Or she may come across as a dear old auntie or grandmother. She may also be extroverted and lively. No one suspects the grandmother, or “kind” woman, right? Many falsely assume she is nurturing when everything she does is cloaked in false humility and secrecy.
How do you discern a female narcissist?
What are the signs of a covert and overt female narcissist?
Are there differences between male & female narcissists?
Why does she go undetected much longer?
What impact does she have?
What role do narcissists play in parental alienation? For those being alienated, have you discerned the other parent may be a narcissist?
We’ll get into narcissistic frenemies – how they use people around them to accomplish their goals and then discard with absolutely no remorse.
We’ll also break down how the female narcissist uses her children & spouse similar to a black widow.
Join the conversation on Clubhouse Tuesday, December 7th at 7pm CST! Find the Clubhouse app in the iOS or Android app store.
Event link: https://www.clubhouse.com/event/M8QeNLDm
Check out these helpful and healing videos on female narcissists:
The Female Narcissist In Love, Friendships, & Relationships: https://youtu.be/SH2ooWR2TuM
The Dangers Of The Female Narcissist! https://youtu.be/ItPUMqe0gLU
What is Clubhouse? Visit this link: https://www.clubhouse.com/