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What Are Soul Ties?
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Video duration: 17 minutes
Discussed in the video:
* What are soul ties?
* How do I know if I am in a soul tie?
* What steps do I need to take to be spiritually delivered?
* How do I maintain my deliverance?
If you are or have been in a narcissistic relationship, recovering from a toxic relationship of any kind, or have wisdom to share, this is a discussion for you.
If you are ready to be set free, this is the discussion for you.
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Let’s break those chains!
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Uploaded by: Rabbi Hadassah Ryklin, Aug 23, 2016
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Society presents an image that all parents are good parents and that all parents love and want the best for their children. Sadly this is not the case. This is not the experience of those with narcissistic families.
“Well, parents such as this don’t love their children because they don’t truly love God either. These parents have broken the first commandment, and, to their children, that makes them enemies, not parents. And we don’t honor enemies. We pray for them.(Matthew 5:44) This, therefore, shows that the assumption made in the commandment about honoring parents is that fathers and mothers love God, are living holy lives, and care for their children, and want their good. So what happens when parents don’t really want the good of their children? What happens when parents constantly criticize their children, abuse them, and essentially stifle any good that the children could achieve? “- Dr. Raymond Richmond
Ungodly Soul Ties & Generational Curses in Families
Some parents want to be worshipped and to control their children. They make their children indebted to them for life. This is an ungodly soul tie. God tells us to honor our fathers and mothers so that we learn from their wisdom. Parents are supposed to be a representation of God’s unconditional love. Enabling and keeping ties with demonically influenced people is not honoring them. It is enabling them.
Toxic parents & families use the command to honor them as a cover to perpetrate evil and abuse.
Parents are not gods. They should not be worshipped. Narcissistic families are ruled by the Jezebel spirit, seeking to control, dominate, and usurp God’s authority and plans.
How do you honor your parents – by following God and His plan for our lives, it is not permissible for them to do evil and for families to sit quietly and be ok with abuse”
We are generational curse breakers.
We honor our parents by discontinuing their toxic cycles and by going no contact with the people who continue in the toxicity & evil doing. Gossipping, pathologically lying, scapegoating, pride & evil-doers are all things that God abhors.
We forgive them and pray for them from a distance if need be. And as I always say if you are not there yet, seek God. You do not want unforgiveness to keep you yoked to and in bondage unnecessarily.
Is it not dishonoring your parents or family for telling the truth about abuse.
Narcissistic families sweep evil and abuse under the rug, and they disassociate the person who speaks up. It is often a cult or mafia-type loyalty. Phrases like, “what happens in the family stay in the family.” “Family over everything.” However, you cannot speak up – even with other family members.
What are the signs of an abusive and narcissistic family?
❉ They want to control you.
❉ They tried to control you through guilt & codependency to make you dependent on them even through adulthood.
❉ They had a “favorite”, “golden” child, or scapegoat,& invisible child. These roles were interchangeable at any time.
❉ They guilt you for simply being born. You owe them your life because they were there for you as if you asked to be here. You are taught to always put everyone first above yourself.
❉ They have a high sense of entitlement & groom you to take care of them as they grow older. (Understand that This is your choice – not your duty, led by the Holy Spirit. – especially if you have a narcissistic family)
❉ They present a picture-perfect family image to outsiders. Image is everything.
❉ Family is highly secretive and loyalty is expected. If you disagree or do something that displeases you are met with silent treatment until you get back in line.
Watch the video for the remainder of the signs.
Love, friendships, families, work environments, etc., are not about how much abuse you can take.
How do you know when it’s time to walk away?
✘ When you are not respected.
✘ After you laid boundaries & articulated them and they are still not adhered to.
✘ When you are disrespected, lied on, lied to, manipulated, betrayed with no sincere apology, remorse & no real conversation or changed actions.
✘ Your issues are invalidated, mocked, & belittled.
✘ You are gaslit & made to seem like you are “too much”, “crazy”, or a drama king/queen for not enabling abuse.
✓ Learn when to throw up your deuces. Keep your crown held high.
Family is not a license to abuse.
Bible scriptures:
Depart from me, you evildoers, For I will keep the commandments of my God! Psalm 119:115
Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. Ephesians 5:11
And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4
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I Want To Stay With The Narcissist. Now What?
Living & being in contact with a narcissist is a choice only the victim can make. This pertains to family, work, friends, & interpersonal relationships. I am here to simply inform you of the life that awaits you should you choose to remain in a narcissistic, abusive relationship of any kind.
Come to terms with:
*They will not change. Therapists & psychology cannot counsel or change demons.
*Narcissists are not loyal to anyone.
*The narcissist was sent to siphon your purpose in God. (Python spirit)
*People in your family & social circles will believe the narcissist. They must control how people view you. The more you defend yourself the crazier you appear to those around you. (Jezebel spirit)
*They have been & will continue to smear your name. The lies will intensify should they feel threatened, rejected, or abandoned. (Leviathan spirit)
In Christ, there is true freedom. God does not want anyone abused or in bondage.
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Get Up & Walk! Are You Desperate Yet?
God has already equipped you! You are not waiting on God. God is waiting on you. Activate your faith. Don’t be passive about your healing. Be intentional! God wants people who want Him. Be desperate for Christ in your life.
The woman who touched Jesus’ hem?
The man at Bethesda?
They were desperate for healing.
Are you desperate and intentional about your healing?
That’s right where God wants you!
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Yes! It Was All A Lie
One of the hardest conclusions for narcissist survivors to come to is that EVERYTHING was a lie.
Narcissists are ultra fake, demonically influenced “persons” in human form. They are able to fool others by charming and appealing to other’s good-hearted nature.
Was it all a lie? Yes.
The future faking.
The love you thought the narcissist had for you.
The so-called “kind” person that is filled with narcissistic spirits & has everyone fooled.
The friend that betrays your trust and tells your secrets.
The family that stands by narcissists who enable abuse and is cloaked in secrecy.
The co-worker that befriends you then proceeds to steals your ideas and smears your name.
Narcissists pretend to be everything but what they really are inside, which is evil, unclean demonic spirits that enable them to pathologically lie and betray without absolutely zero remorse.
But understand it is not you. What happened was not your fault, but healing is your responsibility.
Don’t take on the narcissist’s projected hatred of themselves. The guilt & shame is not yours to bear.
Everything about the narcissist is a complete, fabrication of deception, control, & manipulation. Now it’s time to heal. 💛
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Let’s discuss the spirit of Leviathan…
Narcissism, Jezebel, Python, and Leviathan demonic spirits work hand-in-hand to siphon, quench, and thwart your purpose and destiny.
Leviathan is the father of pride, lies, manipulation.
Those who have the spirit of Leviathan are full of deception,
The spirit works to ensnare and deceive others in its webs of hate and arrogance.
Do you know the spirit of Leviathan’s fruits?
That lying coworker?
That arrogant troll?
The smear campaign by your family?
That person that tells half-truths?
The one that cannot unharden their hearts?
The manipulative spouse?
That wolf in sheep’s clothing masquerading as a “preacher”?
Leviathan.
“He beholdeth all high things: he is a king over all the children of pride.”
Job 41:34 KJV
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Divination & The Python Spirit
The Python spirit is a strong man spirit that affects many in the Body of Christ and throughout this world, unnecessarily so.
Freedom in Christ
Are you free from the spirit of Python and divination?
Do you know the characteristics of the Python spirit?
Watch this video to understand how to discern this spirit and how to overcome through Jesus Christ!
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It Is Not About The Narcissist!
Being involved with a narcissist is a soul-stirring experience.
It rocks you to your core. But this is not the end of your story. Use this situation to propel you into your God-given purpose. Remember that narcissists are cowardly demons who do the enemy’s work. As Believers, we have the power to overcome and thrive!
Narcissists are the physical embodiment of Satan and his minions in human form.
They come to kill, steal, and destroy your destiny and purpose. At some point in the healing process, you begin to understand that it is not about the narcissist.
You may have spent a lifetime with a family of narcissists. You may have married a narcissist. Your child may be a narcissist. Your friend may be a narcissist. What matters is how you heal and overcome everything the enemy sent to destroy you.
Take Your Power Back!
No contact is an important step for healing. When you go no contact you are able to step out of the fog so that your brain is able to see clearly what has happened to you.
Godly And Ungodly Soul Ties
There are godly and ungodly ties. Break the ungodly soul ties with those who seek to control, abuse, and mistreat you. That is one of the first steps in spiritual deliverance so that you can be truly set free from bondage. The next step is to come out of agreement with those demons and strongholds.
Break The Soul Tie Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank you for the godly soul ties and relationships. Lord, I repent for my sins made by omission and by commission. I ask you for wisdom and the gift of discernment as I engage with people each day. Please reveal and remove anyone operating secretly for the enemy that does not have my best interest at heart. Lord, help me to discern godly souls & soul ties from ungodly ones. In the name of Jesus, I break every demonic soul tie with workers of iniquity, that I have interacted with unbeknownst to me. I break every generational curse, hex, stronghold, word curse that entered in my bloodline, that was spoken over my life or that entered in through my sin. I repent on behalf of my mother and father. I command these demonic spirits to GO in the mighty name of Jesus. I rebuke, renounce, and break the agreement with every covenant and agreement that I have made with them. I bind these ungodly soul ties in Jesus’ name by the power and authority that He gave. I loose your protection, direction & will for my life. I purify myself with the blood of Jesus. I am completely free! In Jesus’ name, I walk by faith & I believe and pray in His name, Amen.
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10 Things To Never Do With A Narcissist!
Watch the video for the entire list.
There’s a quote that says: “Before borrowing money from a friend decide which you need the most.”If you are in a narcissistic relationship of any kind here is list of recommendations that you do not want to do.
The first three are:
- Do not co-sign.
- Be careful with lease agreements.
- Think twice about being on the same phone carrier account.
Here’s why:
Narcissists are not normal, rational people. They are filled with demons in human form. They love money & will do anything to get it.
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The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously. Psalm 37:21
The way of a fool seems right to him. But wise people listen to words that help them. Proverbs 12:15
For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. 1 Timothy 6:10 KJV
The rich ruleth over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender. Proverbs 22:7
When we do not have to borrow money that is a blessing from the Lord. Typically when we are obedient & listen to the Lord’s instruction & handle our money wisely we will not be in debt.
God doesn’t want us to be a slave to anyone. We should seek God instead of lenders. The borrower is a slave.
The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender. Proverbs 22:7
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33
Proceed with caution. Examine the fruit. Above all, seek the Holy Spirit & test the spirit by the Spirit.
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