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It Is Not About The Narcissist!
Being involved with a narcissist is a soul-stirring experience.
It rocks you to your core. But this is not the end of your story. Use this situation to propel you into your God-given purpose. Remember that narcissists are cowardly demons who do the enemy’s work. As Believers, we have the power to overcome and thrive!
Narcissists are the physical embodiment of Satan and his minions in human form.
They come to kill, steal, and destroy your destiny and purpose. At some point in the healing process, you begin to understand that it is not about the narcissist.
You may have spent a lifetime with a family of narcissists. You may have married a narcissist. Your child may be a narcissist. Your friend may be a narcissist. What matters is how you heal and overcome everything the enemy sent to destroy you.
Take Your Power Back!
No contact is an important step for healing. When you go no contact you are able to step out of the fog so that your brain is able to see clearly what has happened to you.
Godly And Ungodly Soul Ties
There are godly and ungodly ties. Break the ungodly soul ties with those who seek to control, abuse, and mistreat you. That is one of the first steps in spiritual deliverance so that you can be truly set free from bondage. The next step is to come out of agreement with those demons and strongholds.
Break The Soul Tie Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank you for the godly soul ties and relationships. Lord, I repent for my sins made by omission and by commission. I ask you for wisdom and the gift of discernment as I engage with people each day. Please reveal and remove anyone operating secretly for the enemy that does not have my best interest at heart. Lord, help me to discern godly souls & soul ties from ungodly ones. In the name of Jesus, I break every demonic soul tie with workers of iniquity, that I have interacted with unbeknownst to me. I break every generational curse, hex, stronghold, word curse that entered in my bloodline, that was spoken over my life or that entered in through my sin. I repent on behalf of my mother and father. I command these demonic spirits to GO in the mighty name of Jesus. I rebuke, renounce, and break the agreement with every covenant and agreement that I have made with them. I bind these ungodly soul ties in Jesus’ name by the power and authority that He gave. I loose your protection, direction & will for my life. I purify myself with the blood of Jesus. I am completely free! In Jesus’ name, I walk by faith & I believe and pray in His name, Amen.
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10 Things To Never Do With A Narcissist!
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There’s a quote that says: “Before borrowing money from a friend decide which you need the most.”If you are in a narcissistic relationship of any kind here is list of recommendations that you do not want to do.
The first three are:
- Do not co-sign.
- Be careful with lease agreements.
- Think twice about being on the same phone carrier account.
Here’s why:
Narcissists are not normal, rational people. They are filled with demons in human form. They love money & will do anything to get it.
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The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously. Psalm 37:21
The way of a fool seems right to him. But wise people listen to words that help them. Proverbs 12:15
For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. 1 Timothy 6:10 KJV
The rich ruleth over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender. Proverbs 22:7
When we do not have to borrow money that is a blessing from the Lord. Typically when we are obedient & listen to the Lord’s instruction & handle our money wisely we will not be in debt.
God doesn’t want us to be a slave to anyone. We should seek God instead of lenders. The borrower is a slave.
The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender. Proverbs 22:7
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33
Proceed with caution. Examine the fruit. Above all, seek the Holy Spirit & test the spirit by the Spirit.
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Narc Free Living Spreaker Podcasts, Interviews, & Radio Broadcasts
Shannon has appeared on numerous podcasts, interview shows, and weekly radio segment broadcasts where she had the opportunity to discuss overcoming abuse and spreading the good news as a disciple of Christ. Here are a few of the interviews that Shannon had the opportunity to be a part of.
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Make Them Regroup!
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Your enemies tried to take you out. They lied on you. They tried to turn everyone against you. Oh, but remember who God says you are!
- They tried everything in their power to break you.
- Do you know how strong you have to be the outcast, the Black Sheep, the Scapegoat?
Oh, but God!
- Do you know how hard it is to stand strong with your head held high in front of the very people – who you want to save but they want to smear your name?
- Do you know how hard it is to pray for these same people?
To forgive them?
Oh, it’s easy to love those who love you, it is a whole other to love those who you know that hate you.
It is only by the Holy Spirit. God is our Redeemer. In Him, we cannot fail.
Make ‘em regroup. Stand on God’s word!
“I know that you can do all things; no purpose of yours can be thwarted.” Job 42:2
“The LORD will vindicate me; your love, LORD, endures forever— do not abandon the works of your hands.” Psalms 138:8
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The Dangers Of Strangulation
“When a woman is strangled, it greatly increases the risk of later being the victim of an attempted homicide or being killed increases dramatically.”
Strangulation is often used in domestic abuse situations to control another person.
It is one of the most lethal forms of domestic violence as the potential to render the victim unconscious can happen within seconds and death within minutes of the act.
Take note of men & women who like to act out violence in sexual activities. This may be an indicator they have a proclivity towards abuse or that they have been a victim of abuse themselves.
- Most people who have been strangled by a domestic partner tend to reduce the act as “not serious”. Do not minimize the act and press charges! Do not feel bad about reporting the incident. It is just as bad and even worse as hitting. It is domestic violence.
- People confuse choking with strangulation.
- Choking is an object blocking your airway. When someone is choking, there is some sort of foreign object inside the body that is restricting the flow of oxygen.
- When strangulation occurs, there is an outside force exerting enough pressure to block the movement of oxygen to the brain.
- Examples of strangulation include a person using their hands around a person’s neck, or a ligature, or by hanging.
“Research shows that roughly 10% of domestic violence victims are strangled. In fact, non-fatal strangulation is a significant predictor for future violence, and people who were strangled by their partner are at a 6 to 10 times greater risk of being murdered by their abuser.”
Please take strangulation seriously! If have been strangled by your spouse, your partner, or anyone else IT IS NOT OK.
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline can help connect you to local resources. Call 1-800-799-7233 to speak to someone today.
Resources: Life and Death in Your Hands: Strangulation more common in domestic abuse cases
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A Narcissist Is Dangerous To Your Destiny
Watch here: https://youtu.be/MCRnd4F90xs
God instructs us to pray – not stay with or around people who are angry, liars, violent, wicked, gossipers, slanderous, those who participate in evil works, adulterous, & heartless.
A narcissist is dangerous because they come to kill, steal, & destroy.
Narcissists come to:
*Distract
*Disrupt
*Deny
*Destroy
*Discombobulate
*Dismantle
*Delay
And to put you, your life & your destiny in disarray.
What does God’s Word say?
Do not be deceived, bad company corrupts good character. 1 Corinthians 15:33
An ungodly man diggeth up evil: and in his lips, there is as a burning fire. A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends. A violent man enticeth his neighbor and leadeth him into a way that is not good. He shutteth his eyes to devise froward things: moving his lips he bringeth evil to pass. Proverbs 16:27-30 KJV
“Some people we are to avoid friendship with include: the violent man (Proverbs 16:29, Proverbs 1:10-12), the wicked man (Proverbs 12:26, Proverbs 4:14-17), the gossip (Proverbs 16:28), the perverse (Proverbs 16:30), those who engage in deeds of darkness (Ephesians 5:11, Proverbs 2:12), the thief (Proverbs 1:10-19), and the adulterous woman (Proverbs 2:16-19). Furthermore, 2 Timothy 3:1-5 tells us we should not be friends with lovers of self, lovers of money, the proud, the abusive, those disobedient to parents, the ungrateful, the heartless, lovers of pleasure, etc.
“We are likely to be faced with a toxic relationship sometime in our lives. This might be someone very close to us, like our own parent, or someone in leadership such as a boss. Whatever you face, understand that these relationships are not a blessing from the Lord. When the devil wants to tear you down, he will send people to do so. Learn that these types of behaviors are not healthy, and do what is necessary to remove yourself from the situation.”
“Being angry and frustrated by a toxic situation, the relationship is perfectly normal. Typically, that’s our mind’s way of alerting us to the fact that something is very wrong. If you’re in a toxic environment, you do not need to “get used to it” or “just get over it.” God wants you to remove yourself from these situations.”
Above all, if you are in a relationship, family, friendship, etc., with a narcissist, someone filled with demonic spirits – seek, LISTEN, & OBEY the Holy Spirit, over any woman or man.
Ask Jehovah for HIS protection & instruction.
A wise man will hear and will increase learning, and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels. Proverbs 1:5 KJV
For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her. Ephesians 5:25
He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5
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Why Don’t More People Come Forward?
Narcissist abuse affects over 158 million people annually. Most people do not realize they have been affected by narcissists in one way or another. Narcissists are prevalent in today’s society. They are in our workplaces, churches, and every facet of home and work life.
Anyone that has experienced narcissistic abuse fully understands why coming forward is an anxiety-producing, palm-sweating, fearful experience. Narcissists are pathological liars who are able to turn a survivors coworkers, friends, and family against their intended target.
It takes someone with great strength & courage to come forward & share their stories. We support survivors! 💜
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Does The Narcissist Miss You?
Nope! And here is why you should not care!
Deliver a knockout punch to the narcissists in your life. They do not deserve you, your time, your energy, your love, or your attention.
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The Importance of Spiritual Deliverance
How do you begin to heal from a narcissist abusive relationship and break the soul ties? Spiritual deliverance, especially after narcissistic abuse, is very important.
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How do we overcome strongholds?
Believers have the power to overcome strongholds in our lives. When we overcome individually we have greater power to overcome collectively.Spiritual warfare is more than rebuking & binding.
We must crucify our flesh daily & walk in God’s Spirit.
- There is a difference between a stronghold & a demonic spirit or stronghold.
- Unrepentant sin, generational cycles, trauma keeps people in bondage.
- Ungodly thoughts, words, spoken curses must be renounced and cast out.
These spirits come to usurp, deny, & quench the power of the Holy Spirit.
Do not allow sin to rob you of your God-given purpose.
Proverbs 6:16-19 These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him: A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that are swift in running to evil, A false witness who speaks lies, And one who sows discord among brethren.1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. -
10 Things A Narcissist Does Not Want You To Know
A narcissist is the embodiment of Satan personified in human form. They are master manipulators who will do anything to keep their facade under wraps. They are demonic spirits who must inhabit flesh in order to carry out the wiles & schemes of their father – Satan.
You see flesh. You may see a nice looking person. Inside they are ravenous wolves, seeking whom they may devour.
Narcissists appear confident on the outside. However, on the inside, they are insecure children who have chosen to operate in agreement with their false self.
They appear strong or like bullies but inside they are cowards who turn to demons & a demonic mindset to verbalize their true feelings.
They appear charming and sweet on the outside. As if they would do anything for you. But everything comes with strings attached; they desire your attention, compliments, and you buying into their image to survive.
Narcissists gaslight, project, hoover, use smear campaigns, pathologically lie, & give the silent treatment to control to inflict emotional abuse on their victims.
Watch the video to hear ten things a narcissist does not want you to know.
What would you add to this list?
