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Narcissists Promise Dreams & Deliver Total Nightmares!
And delivering total nightmares…
Sweet dreams are made of these…Not with a narcissist. These are the things LifeTime movies are about. These are future Netflix, Dateline, & 20/20 documentaries in the making.
Narcissists pull you into Narc Land with your own voids, unhealed trauma, & innermost desires. They sell pipe dreams and deliver gut-wrenching, soul-snatching, heartbreaking nightmares.
When you get to your breaking point & try to pull away, they future fake you – so you reup on that demonic contract. What’s your fantasy? Marriage, a house, a ring, protection, a family – 2.5 children with a white picket fence, posts for the ‘Gram to prove to your haters you are no longer rejected? Oh, they’ll help you live a lie.
When you leave or contemplate leaving, then they’ll sweet talk your panties or underwear off with future faking 5.0, promising you hopes of “change”, let’s move here, this time around will be different, let’s go to counseling…(blah, blah, blah). If you are smart you’ll pick up on they are selling you HOPE & everything they would not give in the relationship. This lets you know they knew what to do all along…
Hope deferred makes the heart sick…Proverbs 13:12
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The Dangers Of Narcissistic Marriages: Destiny Unfulfilled & Unholy Matrimony!
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The Sexuality Of The Narcissist!
Join the live stream Saturday, January 7, at 1 pm CST on the Narc Free Living YouTube Channel! We are going deeper Chain Breakers so that people can be free!
Let’s discuss:-The narcissist’s agenda & assignment-The beast system’s goal to break down marriages & the Kingdom family unit-How satan entices, entraps, and ensnares-Spirit of Baphomet-The sexual profile of the narcissistHow narcissists & our own trauma & desires lead into:-Unfaithfulness-Adultery-Chronic dissatisfaction-Idolatry-Fornication-Prostitution-Alternative lifestyles-Transformation in JehovahAnd more importantly how to break the soul ties, trauma bonds, and be set free in Yahshua!Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land falls to whoredom, and the land becomes full of wickedness. (Leviticus 19:29)
They that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit. For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace” (Romans 8:5-6).
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Coaching Updates for 2023!
NFL’s coaching & ministry services are done excellence & in order. At this time until further notice, coaching is limited to those currently enrolled in the Chain Breaker University (CBU) Mentorship Program. This is so that we can continue to protect the oil as we help others break chains! Prepare the oil. Protect the oil. Preserve the oil.
As of January 2023, coaching and personal responses are limited to those currently enrolled in Breaker University. We want to ensure that mentees that are in CBU have the attention and focus they deserve. We want to continue providing a first-rate experience as we break these chains!
1:1 coaching appointments will be announced as they become available. If you are a past client and you are not currently enrolled in CBU, please email & we will try our best to schedule you.
Accessibility is purposeful, focused, & limited to current mentees. Narc Free Living is not resourced to provide legal, rescue, shelter, & emergency services.
If it is YAH’s will, then it is HIS bill. Whatsoever Jehovah Jireh creates, sanctions, & ordains HE provides protection, purpose, and provision for.
Here’s how to connect:
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Narcissists & The Octopus Spirit!
Narcissists know the added benefits of intertwining themselves into your social circles. One way they get to you is through your spouse or significant other. It is important that you two are equally yoked & on the same page when it comes to dealing with spiritual warfare. Narcissists are very strategic; they’ll intentionally & purposely befriend your spouse, partner, friends, and children, in real life & especially on social media, so they can keep tabs on you & your family – anyone they use can to remain hoovering and abusing you by proxy.
Like a black widow spider 🕷 or an octopus 🐙, narcissistic people know how to get next to people and turn them into loyal, unsuspecting flying monkeys & victims of their schemes. They use their well-crafted network to ease in & out of situations. And before you realize it, a narcissist can take over your own social circle leaving you without a support system which is exactly what they want.
Ever wonder how they are able to seemingly get out of things? They purposely play on unsuspecting people’s empathy to help them. Everyone that claims to be a victim of narcissistic abuse is not a victim. Some are the perpetrators that find solace, prayer, & empathy in these communities…
An Octopus spirit is a ruling spirit that is operating in tandem with other sins & strongholds. It works through its tentacles and arms, which are spirits and sins of the flesh. The head is typically a spirit of mind control, religious legalism, double-mindedness, schizophrenia, idolatry, or witchcraft (control). (You are in an idolatrous relationship when you are with a Jezebel spirit-filled narcissist).
The octopus spirit comes in through witchcraft. It is a strongman spirit of mind control from the marine kingdom and is associated with the squid, mermaid, & Leviathan spirits. Ever wonder why you feel that fogginess, anguish, & confusion during narcissist abuse? That may be a sign of an octopus-like spirit and the ink they release upon their prey.
Your dream life:
An octopus seen in a dream can be the image of entanglement, control, envy, jealousy, fear, & shame. It can also depict hidden addiction & codependence on another person or demonic system.To combat this spirit you must armor up with YAH’s armor. Repent from all sins and ask God for forgiveness. It is important to truly repent from all sins & the sins of your lineage prior to engaging in spiritual warfare. Put on the full armor so that you can stand righteously. Satan is an accuser of the brethren, who is always looking for loopholes to continue to torment you.
Watch the video below to learn more and to cancel the assignment of the octopus-like spirit over your life. Remember that you cannot break curses that you are in agreement with. You cannot be untangled with a spirit or person that you secretly want to be in agreement with. You must repent & come out of the agreement and sever the soul tie out loud.
For more in-depth teaching on this spirit, watch The Octopus Spirit: How The Narcissist Traps You! Narcissists & The Octopus Spirit: An Entanglement From Hell!
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Your Time IS Coming!
Decree it: My time is coming. I will ARISE.
You may be in what appears to be a losing season, but it is actually a season of REBUILDING. The rebuilding is necessary as you become awakened from darkness to light.
Admittedly, the process does not feel good, however, it IS necessary to heal. The REFINERS fire is needed to bring you OUT of this world into the Kingdom of Heaven. Not religion. Not culture. Not titles or success. Not church. Into a RELATIONSHIP with Him.
Now is the time you are UNLEARNING to RELEARN. The old you will be no more. A new, improved you is being REBIRTHED. A part of this REFORMATION is learning to celebrate others while you are in SPIRITUAL ICU. You will also begin to discern that everyone in your circle is not your friend. You will notice who does not clap for you when you WIN. What is SOWN will be REAPED. Learn to celebrate, PRAISE, & DANCE even in the RAIN.
You got next. ⭐️
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Narcissist Abuse Recovery: Chain Breaker University Mentorship & Sisterhood Program
How The Narcissist Siphons Your Spirit, Looks, & Your Soul! And How To GLOW UP!
Spiritual ICU: The Healing Process After Narcissist Abuse
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Separating Your Feelings & Emotions From The Narcissist’s!
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Narcissistic Families: Scapegoat, You Are NOT Alone!
If you find yourself in a narcissistic relationship, statistics show there’s a narcissistic family (or member) not too far behind…and don’t worry, you’re in good company. 💜
Dating or marrying a narcissist is a SYMPTOM of a much bigger ROOT issue. In narcissistic families, codependency, secrecy, shaming, hyper-criticism, betrayal, instability, addictions, disorders, sexual, financial, emotional, & psychological abuse run rampant. Family members are emotionally fused in an unhealthy way. Enmeshment is a family dynamic that lacks boundaries.
The parental roles and expectations are confused & perverted. Parents are overly and inappropriately reliant on their children for emotional support, and children are not allowed to become emotionally independent or separate from their parents. On the outside, it appears the unit is “close”. The truth is narcissistic families are enmeshed.
Nowhere in the Word does Yah command us to stay in abuse of any kind – and that includes biological relatives. As a Chain Breaker, you will be pulled out of destructive systems. Rejection is protection. What really confuses & confounds our inner child is the LACK of protection in narcissistic families. But see my dear, that’s where you must know what you are dealing with. A narcissistic family is NOT in place to protect YOU. The “family” is in place to PROTECT THE SYSTEM. The IMAGE. The dysfunction. The lies. The secrets; everything that is contrary to the Word of GOD.
Make no mistake, narcissists will use & misuse scripture & religion to keep you in check & in bondage to the system. Some bonds are only held together because of lies, dysfunction, trauma bonds, & soul ties. In narcissistic families, it is not the abuse that is the issue – it’s TALKING ABOUT THE ABUSE THAT IS THE PROBLEM.
We cannot pick our biological relatives but we can embrace our spiritual family. That’s the one that will last forever. 💜 Let’s break those chains!⛓️
For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother. Matthew 12:50 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36
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Narcissistic Family Roles In Depth
Narcissist Abuse: When I Knew I Was In A Narcissistic Marriage & Family!
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Narcissists Are The Physical Embodiment of Satan In Human Form!
Narcissists are the physical embodiment of Satan in human form. They are demonized, oppressed, & tormented by demons, fallen angels, and unclean spirits. The Jezebel spirit (witchcraft, control, manipulation, idolatry, & sexual immorality) is a dominating spirit that is rampant in families, communities, churches, & workplaces. This spirit is typically the strongman spirit that rules the narcissist. It is a reprobate spirit that does not repent (typically). A legion of spirits demonizes narcissists.
They take on all of satan’s characteristics: diabolical, devilish, deviant, cowardly, condescending, confusing, slanderous, murderous, theft, exploitative, pathological lying, pretentious to get what they want, time wasters. spirit siphons, scheming, envious, obsessive, calculated, paranoid, sexually perverted, jealous, double-minded, gossipy, greedy, plays victim, will harm their own seed, copycat, mocking, mirroring, with hearts that have waxed cold.
While mainstream psychology attempts to minimize & categorize narcissists as mentally ill, or disordered, it’s much deeper than that. Resigning them to an illness causes damage to their victims who may not understand exactly what they are & what their purpose is here on earth: to kill, steal, & destroy.
To be diagnosed as a narcissist, a person must display patterns of:
- A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
- a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
- preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
- requires excessive admiration (idolatry through the form of narcissistic supply)
- has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
- is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends *lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her *shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes.
The Word says in Proverbs 6:16–19 seven things that are also ABOMINATIONS: “haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and one who spreads strife among brothers.” Stay away from these “people”.
They do not love you. They are on assignment to assassinate your character & to kill you psychologically, spiritually, or physically. They leave a trail of destruction wherever they go. They cannot NOT be who they are in agreement with. Don’t play with it. I don’t care how many narcissists sit in pulpits, in congregations, on ministry, as counselors & coaches, as scholars & school teachers, as political officials, janitors, housewives & housekeepers.
From the top to the bottom of all social classes & societal structures – you will find narcissists that masquerade as angels of light. We have the power to overcome by the Blood of Yahshua, but most do not understand its power & how to win in warfare to become WARRIORS.
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
Are you ready to truly break the chains?
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When Empathic People Try To Save The Narcissist!
Narcissistic Parents: Jezebel & Ahab
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CBU Mentorship Program: Narcissist Abuse Recovery & Spiritual Warfare Equipping
Chain Breaking Mentorship Group Program
CBU mentorship is all about holistic healing. Our bi-monthly accountability virtual video meetings are designed to help you elevate your personal, professional, & spiritual walk, and in your God-given calling! The meetings will be held virtually via Zoom. Sessions are held monthly as announced on Thursdays at 6:30 PM CST | 7:30 PM EST | 4:30 PM PST. Check your local time zone. Would you like to read program reviews? Click here!
Our focus areas will be recovering from narcissist abuse & spiritual warfare, in addition to a focus on holistic healing.
Subtopics:
Spiritual
Severing soul ties
Covenants & agreements
Tearing down altars
Fasting
Prayer
Discernment
Warring against witchcraft in the family, workplace, and 4-wall church
Overcoming abuse in the church
Emotional
Overcoming emotional distress & anxiety
Dealing with stuck points & strongholds
Overcoming guilt & shame
Trauma recovery
Betrayal trauma
Dealing with heartbreak & betrayal of narcissistic family or relationships
Psychological
Your attachment style
Dealing with the soul realm
Healing YAH’s way
Financial
Getting finances back on track after abuse
Physical
Getting back to you & glowing up in Christ
Discipleship
Going deeper in my faith walk
Goals
Staying on track
Business development
Gifts & The Kingdom of Heaven
Business Mentorship
Starting a YouTube channel
No contact
Dealing With The Guilt & Shame of No Contact
Narcissistic Relationships
Narcissistic Mothers
Narcissistic Fathers
Narcissistic Children
Narcissistic Work Environment
Day-to-day life after & during abuse
Coping with life in general
The mentorship program includes:
*Monthly live groups
*Accountability check-in
*Business Coaching
*Discipleship & Stewardship
*Deliverance
*Education
*Exhortations
*Empowerment
*Apostolic & prophetic equipping
*Sisterhood
*Spiritual ICU recovery
*Spiritual Warfare equipping
*Warrior Training
*Workbook
*Worksheets
Seats are limited. Register today!
You may make the initial payment of $97 and then you may be invoiced month-to-month. Payment plans are available. Check out the option for the 3-month plan for a discounted rate. You will receive the CBU portal and Zoom login information within 72 hours.
USE Code: MENTOR on the monthly registration until 1/1/2023 for a discount.
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Chain Breaker University HOMECOMING! Chain Breaker Check-In
Narc Free Living is inviting you to CBU VIRTUAL HOMECOMING:TOPIC: CHAIN BREAKER UNIVERSITY (CBU)HOMECOMING CHECK-INDATE: TUESDAY, DECEMBER 20, 2022TIME: Dec 20, 2022, 06:30 PM-8:30 PM Central Time VIA Zoom(US and Canada)It’s check-in time Chain Breakers! Whether you are good or not-so-good, going through the highs and lows, and whether you are on the mountaintop or in the valley. Some of you have started businesses, ministries, etc., and some are fighting court battles. Some are still pondering no contact or low contact. Some are dealing with grief and the loss of loved ones. No Chain Breaker left behind! This time is dedicated to you, for prayer, praise, and encouragement in Elohim.I’ll briefly discuss the upcoming mentorship program, as well as, navigate the healing process through everyday life, and why discernment is vital in the workplace, family, church, and beyond. We’ll do an icebreaker as we check in with you. See you soon! Check your email for details.
