Narcissists & Cognitive Dissonance

Cognitive dissonance is a psychological term used to describe the discomfort or tension that arises from holding two or more conflicting beliefs, values, or attitudes. It is the feeling of mental discomfort that occurs when a person’s beliefs, attitudes, or behaviors are inconsistent with one another. When a victim of abuse believes that abuse is wrong but stays in abusive situations. They may experience cognitive dissonance because their belief and behavior are not aligned, and they may try to reduce [...]

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Narcissists Are Satan’s Foot Soldiers!

How Satan uses the narcissist:  Trauma is a gateway to drugs, witchcraft, sorcery, tarot, new age, divination, and rebellion because survivors want answers and to be empowered – especially after narcissistic abuse. Make no mistake about it, narcissists are Satan’s foot soldiers. He uses them to inflict pain on people. Because satan hates all people including those he uses – narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, et. al. But he will use them and then destroy them or they will destroy themselves [...]

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Fighting With A Narcissist Is A Losing Battle!

One of the main reasons that fighting with a narcissist can feel like a losing battle is because they are likely to see any disagreement or criticism as a threat to their sense of self. They can become defensive, angry, or even aggressive in response to any perceived attack on their ego. Additionally, narcissists often have a tendency to manipulate and control others in order to maintain their sense of power and superiority. They may use gaslighting, projection or other [...]

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Do Narcissists Change? Should You Wait On Them To Change? Join The Clubhouse Convo!

Do narcissists change? Did the Jezebel spirit change? What happens to victims that wait on narcissists to change? What are the signs of reprobation, repentance, and recovery? Tune in! Join the conversation on Clubhouse! Tuesday, February 28 at 6:30 pm CST. Kings & Queens welcome! The Narcissist Abuse Healing Club is a healing space for survivors of narcissist abuse. We discuss narcissism from a Biblical perspective. Follow Shannon Savoy on Clubhouse here. What is Clubhouse? https://narcfreeliving.com/join-clubhouse/ The Narcissist Abuse Healing Club on [...]

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How We Overcome: Narcissists, Love, & Abuse!

Let’s break some chains with Solomon of  Faith Base Work Place  & Shannon Savoy! Join us Tuesday, Feb. 14 at 7pm CST as we discuss: *Narcissists, Love, & Abuse: When Love Turns To Hate *Signs of a narcissistic spouse or partner *Overcoming the heartbreak & betrayal of narcissistic family & relationships *When love isn’t love at all *Finding out it was all a lie *Can love and abuse coexist? *God’s plan for Kingdom marriages 1 Corinthians 13:4–8 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; [...]

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Narcissists & Hell! The Dangers Of Narcissism….

Narcissists are so deceived they believed they can fool GOD!  Let’s discuss: *The dangers of living a double life *A reprobate mind *Are narcissists God’s children? *Hades, Hell, & Sheol | The lake of fire *Why being attached to a narcissist is dangerous to your destiny *How narcissists are satan’s foot soldiers and lead others to damnation *How to be free in YAHSHUA! Let’s break those chains! Share this:TwitterFacebookEmail

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When You Are Called The “Crazy” One By A Narcissist!

Narcissists are emotional Decepticons. They use a variety of tactics, such as invalidation, projection, smear campaigns, & triangulation to disarm their victims. Even before you are aware, the narcissist is spreading lies & misinformation about you & others. Long before you realized what & who they were, they were already laying seeds of doubt about you & your character to anyone that listens or entertains their antics. When the mask slips & you see exactly what they are, they’ll [...]

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Walking Away From A Narcissistic Family System!

I walked away from a toxic, enmeshed family system. This post will either bless you or offend you. I am not here to pacify or coddle. I am here as a survivor, to tell you the truth in love and boldness and to support those that want to break free from demonic oppression. Someone needs this strong word. I pray it blesses and strengthens those who also are called out. It was not easy to walk away & it was not [...]

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Narcissistic Families: Scapegoat, You Are NOT Alone!

If you find yourself in a narcissistic relationship, statistics show there’s a narcissistic family (or member) not too far behind…and don’t worry, you’re in good company. 💜 Dating or marrying a narcissist is a SYMPTOM of a much bigger ROOT issue. In narcissistic families, codependency, secrecy, shaming, hyper-criticism, betrayal, instability, addictions, disorders, sexual, financial, emotional, & psychological abuse run rampant. Family members are emotionally fused in an unhealthy way. Enmeshment is a family dynamic that lacks boundaries. The parental [...]

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Narcissists Are The Physical Embodiment of Satan In Human Form!

Narcissists are the physical embodiment of Satan in human form. They are demonized, oppressed, & tormented by demons, fallen angels, and unclean spirits. The Jezebel spirit (witchcraft, control, manipulation, idolatry, & sexual immorality) is a dominating spirit that is rampant in families, communities, churches, & workplaces. This spirit is typically the strongman spirit that rules the narcissist. It is a reprobate spirit that does not repent (typically). A legion of spirits demonizes narcissists. They take on all of satan’s characteristics: [...]

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