Narc Land

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    When You Are Called The “Crazy” One By A Narcissist!

    Narcissists are emotional Decepticons. They use a variety of tactics, such as invalidation, projection, smear campaigns, & triangulation to disarm their victims. Even before you are aware, the narcissist is spreading lies & misinformation about you & others. Long before you realized what & who they were, they were already laying seeds of doubt about you & your character to anyone that listens or entertains their antics.
    When the mask slips & you see exactly what they are, they’ll label you “crazy”, “bipolar” – everything they actually are… Unmasking a narc can be an excruciating and isolating time for victims of narcissistic abuse. If you have been here before, you understand all too well how a narcissist reacts once their mask slips and they fear exposure by others. If you are dealing with a narcissist the smear campaign & pathological lies about you are alone. It is hard to catch wind of the lies but don’t fall for the trap of the smear campaign. The truth comes out in the end.
    Remember, the scapegoat is the “crazy” one that breaks away from the narcissistic system!
    How do/did you handle a smear campaign? Were you called crazy by a suspected narcissist?
    Check out: Narcissists & The Smear Campaign: Are You Under Attack? 

    When You Catch Wind Of The Smear Campaign 

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    Narcissists & The Octopus Spirit!

    Narcissists know the added benefits of intertwining themselves into your social circles. One way they get to you is through your spouse or significant other. It is important that you two are equally yoked & on the same page when it comes to dealing with spiritual warfare. Narcissists are very strategic; they’ll intentionally & purposely befriend your spouse, partner, friends, and children, in real life & especially on social media, so they can keep tabs on you & your family – anyone they use can to remain hoovering and abusing you by proxy.

    Like a black widow spider 🕷 or an octopus 🐙, narcissistic people know how to get next to people and turn them into loyal, unsuspecting flying monkeys & victims of their schemes. They use their well-crafted network to ease in & out of situations. And before you realize it, a narcissist can take over your own social circle leaving you without a support system which is exactly what they want.

    Ever wonder how they are able to seemingly get out of things? They purposely play on unsuspecting people’s empathy to help them. Everyone that claims to be a victim of narcissistic abuse is not a victim. Some are the perpetrators that find solace, prayer, & empathy in these communities…

    An Octopus spirit is a ruling spirit that is operating in tandem with other sins & strongholds. It works through its tentacles and arms, which are spirits and sins of the flesh. The head is typically a spirit of mind control, religious legalism, double-mindedness, schizophrenia, idolatry, or witchcraft (control). (You are in an idolatrous relationship when you are with a Jezebel spirit-filled narcissist).

    The octopus spirit comes in through witchcraft. It is a strongman spirit of mind control from the marine kingdom and is associated with the squid, mermaid, & Leviathan spirits. Ever wonder why you feel that fogginess, anguish, & confusion during narcissist abuse? That may be a sign of an octopus-like spirit and the ink they release upon their prey.

    Your dream life:
    An octopus seen in a dream can be the image of entanglement, control, envy, jealousy, fear, & shame. It can also depict hidden addiction & codependence on another person or demonic system.

    To combat this spirit you must armor up with YAH’s armor. Repent from all sins and ask God for forgiveness. It is important to truly repent from all sins & the sins of your lineage prior to engaging in spiritual warfare. Put on the full armor so that you can stand righteously. Satan is an accuser of the brethren, who is always looking for loopholes to continue to torment you.

    Watch the video below to learn more and to cancel the assignment of the octopus-like spirit over your life. Remember that you cannot break curses that you are in agreement with. You cannot be untangled with a spirit or person that you secretly want to be in agreement with. You must repent & come out of the agreement and sever the soul tie out loud.

    For more in-depth teaching on this spirit, watch The Octopus Spirit: How The Narcissist Traps You! Narcissists & The Octopus Spirit: An Entanglement From Hell!

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    Narcissistic Families: Scapegoat, You Are NOT Alone!

    If you find yourself in a narcissistic relationship, statistics show there’s a narcissistic family (or member) not too far behind…and don’t worry, you’re in good company. 💜

    Dating or marrying a narcissist is a SYMPTOM of a much bigger ROOT issue. In narcissistic families, codependency, secrecy, shaming, hyper-criticism, betrayal, instability, addictions, disorders, sexual, financial, emotional, & psychological abuse run rampant. Family members are emotionally fused in an unhealthy way. Enmeshment is a family dynamic that lacks boundaries.

    The parental roles and expectations are confused & perverted. Parents are overly and inappropriately reliant on their children for emotional support, and children are not allowed to become emotionally independent or separate from their parents. On the outside, it appears the unit is “close”. The truth is narcissistic families are enmeshed.

    Nowhere in the Word does Yah command us to stay in abuse of any kind – and that includes biological relatives. As a Chain Breaker, you will be pulled out of destructive systems. Rejection is protection. What really confuses & confounds our inner child is the LACK of protection in narcissistic families. But see my dear, that’s where you must know what you are dealing with. A narcissistic family is NOT in place to protect YOU. The “family” is in place to PROTECT THE SYSTEM. The IMAGE. The dysfunction. The lies. The secrets; everything that is contrary to the Word of GOD.

    Make no mistake, narcissists will use & misuse scripture & religion to keep you in check & in bondage to the system. Some bonds are only held together because of lies, dysfunction, trauma bonds, & soul ties. In narcissistic families, it is not the abuse that is the issue – it’s TALKING ABOUT THE ABUSE THAT IS THE PROBLEM.

    We cannot pick our biological relatives but we can embrace our spiritual family. That’s the one that will last forever. 💜 Let’s break those chains!⛓️

    For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother. Matthew 12:50 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36

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    Narcissistic Family Roles In Depth

    Narcissist Abuse: When I Knew I Was In A Narcissistic Marriage & Family!

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    Narcissists Are The Physical Embodiment of Satan In Human Form!

    Narcissists are the physical embodiment of Satan in human form. They are demonized, oppressed, & tormented by demons, fallen angels, and unclean spirits. The Jezebel spirit (witchcraft, control, manipulation, idolatry, & sexual immorality) is a dominating spirit that is rampant in families, communities, churches, & workplaces. This spirit is typically the strongman spirit that rules the narcissist. It is a reprobate spirit that does not repent (typically). A legion of spirits demonizes narcissists.

    They take on all of satan’s characteristics: diabolical, devilish, deviant, cowardly, condescending, confusing, slanderous, murderous, theft, exploitative, pathological lying, pretentious to get what they want, time wasters. spirit siphons, scheming, envious, obsessive, calculated, paranoid, sexually perverted, jealous, double-minded, gossipy, greedy, plays victim, will harm their own seed, copycat, mocking, mirroring, with hearts that have waxed cold.

    While mainstream psychology attempts to minimize & categorize narcissists as mentally ill, or disordered, it’s much deeper than that. Resigning them to an illness causes damage to their victims who may not understand exactly what they are & what their purpose is here on earth: to kill, steal, & destroy.

    To be diagnosed as a narcissist, a person must display patterns of:

    • A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
    • a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
    • preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
    • requires excessive admiration (idolatry through the form of narcissistic supply)
    • has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
    • is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends *lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her *shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes.

    The Word says in Proverbs 6:16–19 seven things that are also ABOMINATIONS: “haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and one who spreads strife among brothers.” Stay away from these “people”.

    They do not love you. They are on assignment to assassinate your character & to kill you psychologically, spiritually, or physically. They leave a trail of destruction wherever they go. They cannot NOT be who they are in agreement with. Don’t play with it. I don’t care how many narcissists sit in pulpits, in congregations, on ministry, as counselors & coaches, as scholars & school teachers, as political officials, janitors, housewives & housekeepers.

    From the top to the bottom of all social classes & societal structures – you will find narcissists that masquerade as angels of light. We have the power to overcome by the Blood of Yahshua, but most do not understand its power & how to win in warfare to become WARRIORS.

    For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.

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    When Empathic People Try To Save The Narcissist!

    Narcissistic Parents: Jezebel & Ahab

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    CBU Mentorship Program: Narcissist Abuse Recovery & Spiritual Warfare Equipping

    Chain Breaking Mentorship Group Program

    CBU mentorship is all about holistic healing. Our bi-monthly accountability virtual video meetings are designed to help you elevate your personal, professional, & spiritual walk, and in your God-given calling! The meetings will be held virtually via Zoom. Sessions are held monthly as announced on Thursdays at 6:30 PM CST | 7:30 PM EST | 4:30 PM PST. Check your local time zone. Would you like to read program reviews? Click here!

    Our focus areas will be recovering from narcissist abuse & spiritual warfare, in addition to a focus on holistic healing.

    Subtopics:

    Spiritual

    Severing soul ties

    Covenants & agreements

    Tearing down altars

    Fasting

    Prayer

    Discernment

    Warring against witchcraft in the family, workplace, and 4-wall church

    Overcoming abuse in the church

    Emotional 

    Overcoming emotional distress & anxiety

    Dealing with stuck points & strongholds

    Overcoming guilt & shame

    Trauma recovery

    Betrayal trauma

    Dealing with heartbreak & betrayal of narcissistic family or relationships

    Psychological

    Your attachment style

    Dealing with the soul realm

    Healing YAH’s way

    Financial 

    Getting finances back on track after abuse

    Physical 

    Getting back to you & glowing up in Christ

    Discipleship

    Going deeper in my faith walk

    Goals

    Staying on track

    Business development 

    Gifts & The Kingdom of Heaven

    Business Mentorship

    Starting a YouTube channel

    No contact

    Dealing With The Guilt & Shame of No Contact

    Narcissistic Relationships

    Narcissistic Mothers

    Narcissistic Fathers

    Narcissistic Children

    Narcissistic Work Environment

    Day-to-day life after & during abuse

    Coping with life in general

    The mentorship program includes:

    *Monthly live groups

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    *Business Coaching

    *Discipleship & Stewardship

    *Deliverance

    *Education

    *Exhortations

    *Empowerment

    *Apostolic & prophetic equipping 

    *Sisterhood

    *Spiritual ICU recovery

    *Spiritual Warfare equipping

    *Warrior Training

    *Workbook

    *Worksheets

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    How The Narcissist Siphons Your Spirit, Looks, & Your Soul! And How To GLOW UP!

    Join me live Saturday, November 5 at 1 pm CST for this lively conversation! We’ll also have communion for those that would like to join.

    How does narcissist abuse affect your:

    • Health, hair, looks, spirit, soul realm
    • What betrayal does to you
    • Your brain on abuse
    • Before & after abuse
    • Hollywood & Adrenochrome
    • Demonic soul transference
    • When a narcissist is low on supply
    • Warnings about being connected to narcissists in this season
    • How to armor & glow up in JEHOVAH!

    The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me; because the Lord hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to them that are bound; To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all that mourn; To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he might be glorified. Isaiah 61:1-3

     

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    What Are The Signs Of A Narcissistic Relationship Or Family?

    What are the signs that something is amiss in your relationship, “friendship”, narc next door, “family”, or your encounter with Jezebel on the job?

    One of the first signs you’ll notice are crazymaking and gaslighting. You’ll begin to feel as if you can’t get right. You’ll go from being the best thing to the worst as you go through the cycles of abuse.

    Here are a few signs:

    • You find yourself walking on eggshells around this person or group of people.
    • You begin to discern how hypersensitive, yet cold & calculating, the narcissist is.
    • Narcissists can dish it but cannot take what they give.
    • The person is either a perpetual victim or the hero in their tall tales.
    • They seek to embarrass or usurp you or your authority.
    • Toxic people demand respect while giving none.
    • They preach honor while living dishonorably.
    • They are public angels and private devils.
    • You’ll notice how two-faced they are. They are “charming” and seemingly “nice” in public.
    • Narcissists are two-faced and love to gossip and smear others’ reputations to bolster their low self-esteem.
    • When you bring something to them that bothers you, it will be invalidated and you’ll notice a lack of empathy.
    • Any boundaries you try to set are met with bulldozing right past them.

    Whew…It’s the drama, duality, and audacity for me.

    “Ain’t nobody got time for that!” ~Sweet Brown

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    The Sad, Dreadful Fate Of The Narcissist! Narc Land Part II

    It’s YouTube live stream time fam! It’s time to break some chains in Jesus’ name. Join me live Saturday, May 7 at 1pm CST!

    Make sure you watch Part I: The Burden Of Building With A Narcissistic Clown

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    How the narcissist lives their dreadful no good very bad lives 

    As part of my Narc Land | Clown Town series, I’m continuing the conversation in Part II. Let’s examine:

    • My take on the Kevin Samuels situation
    • The life of someone filled with the spirit of Jezebel
    • Narc Land | Clown Town
    • The Narc Agreements, Affidavit, and Application (what you are signing up for)
    • The Petty, Clown Ways of A Narcissistic Jezebel
    • The Narcissist & The Empath
    • The sad, dreadful fate of the empath who stays with the narcissist
    • Being the bad guy in the clown’s tall tale of fabricated lies

    “Fools speak foolishness and make evil plans” Isaiah 32:6

    “A wise man may look ridiculous in the company of fools.”

    “A fool’s mouth is his ruin, and his lips are a snare to his soul.” Proverbs 18:7

     “The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.” Proverbs 14:1

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    The Burden Of Building With A Narcissist: Build-A-Clown Workshop!

    Join me live Tuesday, April 26th at 7pm CST! I’ll open up on YouTube AND on Clubhouse for a few minutes then transition to YouTube only. I won’t be live on Saturday so tune in on Tuesday for this word! 

    When you build with a clown you become a part of the circus…

    Let’s examine:

    Build A Clown Workshop: Why Building With A Narcissistic Clown Is Costly

    *Narc Land

    *How The Clown 🤡 Gets You

    *Why The Clown Targets You

    *The Clown’s Family

    *When You Realize You Are With A Killer Clown

    *Settle or Leave Clown Town?

    *Putting A Crown On A Clown

    *Leaving Narc Land

    “In Matthew 7:24-27, Jesus states that those who hear His words AND do them are wise builders. They have built their homes on rock-solid foundations.  The winds howl, the rains come – even a flood comes – but the house stands firm.  Those who hear His words, but fail to live by them are foolish builders.”

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    Have You Been To Narc Land?

    Have you been to Narc Land?

    Narc Land is the land of make-believe. Narcs can rewrite events as they deem fit. It’s the place you go into full of life & promise but emerge sexually, physically, financially, spiritually, & psychologically wounded – a shell of your once vibrant self.

    • Your empathy, compassion, and human emotions are seen as vulnerabilities and weaknesses to be used as exploitation and humiliation.
    • Promises are made, future faking is done & where dreams go to die.
    • You believe you have found your soulmate but you find a hellacious nightmare.
    • You are criticized, belittled, bewildered, dazed, confused, depressed, down, abused, & isolated.
    • The clown’s perception, narrative, opinions, feelings, etc., are the only ones that matter.
    • You are simply here to serve supply, make the clowns happy, and provide your resources. Period.
    • You will be cheated on & gaslighted. Everything will be your own fault.
    • The clown’s inner shame is projected onto you, and you are accused of doing all the things that the clown does.
    • Your finances will be destroyed, your livelihood stripped away, your body objectified, your heart shattered into a thousand little pieces and when you are almost defeated, the owner will come back and obliterate the last piece of you.
    • As a final parting gift for participating your friends and even your own family will turn against you and support the narc, leaving you desolate & isolated.
    • Your name is smeared, your character assassinated, and your reputation annihilated.

    You can make it out of the house of horrors. The best way to win is never to enter. Heal past hurts. Acknowledge & deal with trauma & wounds. If you’re in Narc Land, look for the closest exit and RUN! The house always wins. 🎲Get out. 👉🏾🚪

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    Jesus makes a way out of Narc Land! He came to set the captives free! John 8:36